What you think of men that mansplain to women that they are going to be lonely and miserable if they don't have kids and get married, right or wrong?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I think they're right, family life and relationships make a great portion of most people's lives so you have to have something as massively meaningful as that to replace all that time. Some people do, most don't. I remember hearing about a study talking about how some of the most miserable women are childfree until their late 30s and 40s, now wanting kids, but they can't. They're barren.

Plus, not to mention the repercussion of low fertility. Over half of millennial women are childless by 30. Society needs families, it needs parents. BOTH of them, father and mother, and crappy parents aren't going to care if you have kids or not. They'll have their 6 kids and you'll have 1 by 40. In your 60s, you'll wonder why there's so many crappy people. That's why.

Sorry for ranting, thanks for coming to my Ted talk lol.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I actually enjoyed your ranting. 😅

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Aw, thank you. I'm glad you did then.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Let me ask you this, do you share the same sentiment in your original response to men as well or just exclusively to women?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

To both genders but furthermore with women. I think men who can settle down, have a relationship and children, should but it isn't as pressing of an issue. Currently, men outnumber women globally by 40-60 million more or less. If most people are monogamous, these men would die alone. additionally, men are under higher sex selection pressure and aren't tasked with giving birth.
I think that's one thing many red pill guys hint at when they say "men built society", men have to. They're not the ones birthing society. So I don't necessarily view it if a guy never has children, it's more of a natural "necessary evil" but if you can have a committed relationship and be a decent father, you should. It takes two to build a family.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

furthermore probably isn't the correct word, but I think it's more important for women to than for men, although both are important.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Ok. Thanks for your input. 😊

[ChooChooHaha]

That's not mansplaining. That's just projection, being rude, making yourself look fucking dumb, and being a shithead. You don't know everything about this person, so don't be all like: do you have kids? You should have kids! Otherwise you're lonely and shit forever!

I immediately turn it around on men if you ask me. I've had perfect strangers tell me I should have kids WHEN THEY KNOW NOTHING about me, other than I'm 30 and divorced. I personally also try to keep my side of the street clean, and not ask about shit like that with others first. To me, none of my business. Why do you assume I even want my own children? 😂

[Sandeeppingping]

I wouldn't mind them not getting married or having children if they're Chinese, but Europe come on bruv you fuckers gotta keep up with the jihad's pace so you don't get your asses kicked

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

😂😂😂😂

[007kingifrit]

anyone who uses the word mansplain hates men, I've often suspected you idolize women and will do whatever they say as you're lonely and unlucky with women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Oh my gosh, that's what is called among the current generation and that's what I used for the question.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Well, I'm in my mid 20's. I'm dating, but nit married and I have no want of children at the moment. And with that I'm quite happy.

If you (not you specifically, just in general) believe that we as women are lonely without those things, that's your belief. But it's not true for all of us. And the same way I detest being preached to by self-righteous vegans and Christians, I loathe being told I should be married with kids already

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Go get your butt married with kids already. 👰‍♂️

[Sirenboobzilla]

Never! 👩‍🦯

[Sirenboobzilla]

Awww the emoji didn't transfer properly 😞

[Subarugirl]

Statistics show that single unmarried women are the happiest subgroup in the population. And they are more likely to live longer than their married and child-rearing peers, according to a leading expert in happiness.

So statistically that would be a false statement

Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert Health & wellbeing The Guardian

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Ironically the Bible actually teaches the samething, believe it or not in 1 Corinthians 8

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

7 not 8

[Subarugirl]

Actually that was Paul addressing the city of Corinth and their specific issues. First and Second Corinthians was Paul's opinions in regards to Corinth. Jesus doesn't actually say much about marriage but did talk a little about divorce.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The people in Corinth were Christians. If it was meant for Christians then it applies to Christians in the 21th century as well.

[Subarugirl]

Except Paul contradicts himself and Jesus... Paul preaches that salvation is by faith alone except when he doesn’t (Romans 2:6, 2 Corinthians 5:10). Paul contradicts Jesus at least 100 times throughout his ramblings. Here is a sampling of Paul’s teachings that are contrary to what Jesus taught.
A man is justified by faith without the deeds of the law. Romans 3:28
For by grace are ye saved through faith Ephesians 2:8
Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved Acts 16:31

When Jesus explicitly stated.
For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. Matthew 5:18

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You're a heathen so aren't supposed to understand the Bible.

The Holy Spirit through Paul is teaching faith in Jesus is how someone salvation is attained.

In the book of James the Holy Spirit emphasizes that faith alone can't save anyone if it doesn't have works behind it (such person faith a person claims is all bull)

That's not a contradiction, but rather an emphasis that if a person claims such faith then their conduct should reflect what they claim to believe in.

As for what Jesus said below

When Jesus explicitly stated.
For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.

Jesus did fulfill all the law as He was the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world for our sins.

[Subarugirl]

I understand the bible very well, I was raised Christian and when to a Christian school where I took semester after semester of bible classes specifically focused on the new testament. At that time I was Christian, but it was those contradictions and discrepancies in a book that was supposed to divinely inspired and the living word of god that led me to question that faith.

Women discovered the empty tomb of Jesus and returned to tell the others.

The women hurried away from the tomb, afraid yet filled with joy, and ran to tell his disciples (Matthew 28:8).

When they came back from the tomb, they told all these things to the Eleven and to all the others (Luke 24:9).

Or did they? Mark has a different ending.

Trembling and bewildered, the women went out and fled from the tomb. They said nothing to anyone, because they were afraid. (Mark 16:8)

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No one has ever seen God (1 John 4:12).

No man has seen or can see [God] (1 Timothy 6:16).

But Adam and Eve saw God. So did Abraham and Moses:

The Lord appeared to Abraham near the great trees of Mamre while he was sitting at the entrance to his tent in the heat of the day (Genesis 18:1).

The Lord would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend (Exodus 33:11).

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And whosoever shall speak a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but unto him that blasphemeth against the Holy Ghost it shall not be forgiven. —Luke 12:10

For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. —Romans 10:13

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For I am the Lord; I change not. —Malachi 3:6

And the Lord repented of the evil which he thought to do unto his people. —Exodus 32:14

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For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. —Romans 3:23

There was a man…who name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright. —Job 1:1

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Submit yourself to every ordinance of man…to the king, as supreme; Or unto governors. —I Peter 2:13

We ought to obey God rather than men. —Acts 5:29

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Oh gosh, you can be a very annoying woman to deal with. 🙄

You are misinterpreting the Bible. The women didn't stop on their way to speak to anyone about what just happened at the tomb til they got to the disciples.

You are interpreting as if they didn't tell anyone at all.

No one has ever seen God (1 John 4:12).

No man has seen or can see [God] (1 Timothy 6:16).

No one ever saw the Father God, but they have seen God's Son Jesus who is the image of the Father. Adam, Eve and Moses saw Jesus.

For I am the Lord; I change not. —Malachi 3:6

And the Lord repented of the evil which he thought to do unto his people. —Exodus 32:14

God's nature doesn't change but God can change His mind from causing harm unto people if they repent of their evil

For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. —Romans 3:23

There was a man…who name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright. —Job 1:1

Job was a complete in his ways and conduct, not that he was flawless and never did nothing wrong.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Submit yourself to every ordinance of man…to the king, as supreme; Or unto governors. —I Peter 2:13

We ought to obey God rather than men. —Acts 5:29

When government prohibits God's preaching His word then we ought to obey God rather than Government.

[Subarugirl]

You are trying very hard to justify some major contradictions... If that is what you think those verses might mean why weren't they written that way. You are using your biases to twist what it says, by saying that it means something other than what was written twisting it into something that supports what you believe, by making assumptions.

[Subarugirl]

the bible say that adam eve and moses saw god... not the son of god... if they say jesus why didn't it just say they say jesus... that distinction is made everywhere else in the bible...

[Subarugirl]

It literally says that they didn't tell anyone at all... not anyone except for...

[Subarugirl]

as for Job... it says that he was perfect... perfect means with out flaws... there isn't much wiggle room, you can't be perfect and still have flaws... that undermines the entire definition of what perfect mean...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You do realize Jesus is God in the Bible yet you claim you know the Bible? LOL... Jesus took that name once He transition himself to come into the world as a baby to die as a sacrifice for our sins.

As for the women read very slowly what was the command given unto them.

It specifically says go tell the disciples... try improving your reading comprehension.

As they were going they didn't stop on the road to tell anyone about the risin Jesus but the disciples.

As for Job, perfect means complete or blameless.

In other words Job's conduct throughout his life was very rightoues, not as you are misinterpreting as if he actually never did nothing morally wrong ever.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Matthew 28:5-8

But the angel answered and said to the women, “Do not be afraid, for I know that you seek Jesus who was crucified. He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay. And go quickly and tell His disciples that He is risen from the dead, and indeed He is going before you into Galilee; there you will see Him. Behold, I have told you.” So they went out quickly from the tomb with fear and great joy, and ran to bring His disciples word.

[BlueScorpio]

Maybe that's a projection of a fear they have for themselves? Is it entirely wrong though? No. Cause sadly sometimes that does happen to not just women but also men who will feel lonely later on in life cause they chose not to have a family. It just depends in the person and what they want out of life. Some will regret, some won't and will be content with their decision.

[HoneyButterCup525]

Yeah im 30 and my birthday is coming up next week. A guy dumped me for not wanting kids and told me that I'm making a mistake cause by the time il be 36 my eggs will be gone or something... If he really wants kids that's fine he can go and have as many as he likes but I don't think he needed to use the threat of biology or say I'm old or something and he was 41 himself.

[Liasa]

I've seen miserable married women and miserable unmarried women

Unless you're married to a complete chad who will actually stand up for you at all costs

It's not always worth getting married because all marriages are not good marriages

And a bad marriage is worse than being single because it can be violent toxic and can take away your sense of freedom from you.

So if you are marrying... better marry a person who has your back and means it

[Anonymous]

Why would anyone try to explain this to anyone?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No idea. LOL

[KrakenAttackin]

Someone needs to tell these women about the colossal mistakes they are making during their highest value years. If course you can't tell women shit😒.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

So you believe it's a mistake for women doesn't get married and have kids assuming she doesn't desire such life?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. Absolutely. These modern women who party away their most fertile and desirable years are setting themselves up for misery in later years.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Do you think the same applies to men or just exclusively to women and why is that according to you?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. Men need to be told/taught how to be men.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm not talking about that. Do you think men will be lonely and miserable if they don't get married and have a kids or is that exclusively to women?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. Men won't be nearly as lonely as women who don't have families. Men are much better at being solitary than women, by a factor of 10.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

This is based on your personal opinion or actual data?

[whereismyjohnny]

Wrong. That's utter nonsense.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Why?

[whereismyjohnny]

Honestly, the whole idea that the main role of a woman is exclusively a family one is a bit toxic in my opinion. It is often imposed on women that they have to get married, that they have to give birth to children and so on. I think every woman is different. Everyone has different goals and priorities in life. Some women want to get married, have children and have a family and that's nice. Others don't want it and that's perfectly fine too. I think it's a personal thing and a choice, and I'm perfectly fine with both. I'm not judging either. The thing is that women who choose not to marry and not have children are sadly often criticized and looked down on. People, mostly men, diminish their value and act like they are less of a woman. They are often called selfish and told they'll regret their decision later in life.

As I said, every person is different. Some women want family and everything that comes with it. It makes them happy and content, but some women don't need that to feel fulfilled. It's stupid to judge someone based on their decisions or because their choices are different from what society expects from them.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL ok..

[Berethor]

He is telling her the truth, and woman is going to hit the wall pretty soon.

[Berethor]

I mean and the woman is going to hit the wall pretty soon.

[WhiteBoyChill]

They’re not wrong. Most “strong and independent” single unmarried childless women in their 30’s I know are absolutely miserable human beings.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

But that's anecdotal on your personal experience though.

[malwins]

I can get kids without a man can’t I

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, but that's stupid.

[KrakenAttackin]

@malwins. This is the selfish attitude of modern women. The complete denial of the important role father's play in a child's life is what has brought out society nearly to its knees.

[BlueScorpio]

Yeah but being a single mom isn't something most women would willingly sign up for. It's a lot work raising a kid by yourself.

[Anonymous]

A waste of time. You can't fix stupid.

[jimmy2]

That hog wash