I’m always seeing girls find some guy because they’re so extroverted, confident, or always know what to say. When I’m in some group setting and I see this, I just end up not even wanting to try. There was a guy I liked, but I found out he doesn’t like me, unfortunately even though it’s one sided, I still like him. But he likes this other girl, and she’s super confident, really pretty, and it’s obvious she knows that people want her, I think it’s gotten to her head. But what’s that like? What’s it like to be born being so confident, gorgeous, and extroverted? I keep wondering why I’m not enough for him, and there’s only so much I can take. I hate that I like him. It just hurts now.
It can be hard to approach or converse until they are comfortable with you. When I used to try to get to know reserved girls at previous jobs, I preferred to show them my character with actions rather than words. This typically worked as it built a form of trustworthiness. Other than that, it’s hard to know what they’re thinking or feeling. I’m a reserved guy but I can be blunt and express myself to anyone when necessary. Extroverted girls are easier to talk to but have a whole other slew of problems.
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