My Boyfriend Is Acting Different Ever Since I Lost Weight?

[BlckGrl]

I've lost over a total of 70 lbs and 20 in the last few months. I have been receiving way more male attention and it hurts his chest so badly, he keeps saying when I get fit to not leave him. When we were in the gym a black guy very handsome was checking me out greatly, deep eye contact and all. He later complained about how he felt invisible when he has done it to me plenty of times, right now 3 attractive black men said hello and were smiling from ear to ear, he also complained and says I'm too cocky... What is all of this about?

[Anonymous]

No honey. It’s different. Him checking out other girls...

... is not the same as other guys checking you out and giving you the eye.

It is becoming abundantly clear to him that you could take your pick out of more, and more men. He never had that ability. He looked at some girl’s ass when she walked past, it had no chance of proceeding or going anywhere. Would the girl suddenly approach him and say “I noticed you checking me out, here’s my number.” No. It doesn’t really work like that. Most women don’t approach men.

But you, well he’s seeing that you’re getting attention and are going to get hollered at in public. Often.

So much for your boyfriend. And the fact that you notice how hot or muscular other guys are who are checking you out, yeah, your relationship is over.

But you’ll be fine. You’re a woman. And obviously an attractive one.

Do you think your boyfriend will have to beat away the pussy to the same extent you have to find another guy to get with?

No. It won’t even be close. Just go ahead and break up with him and go for some guy with better abs. Upgrade your life. I’m sure he’ll be fine. 🙄

[NotTacocaT6969]

Either show him that he matters more to you than horny strangers or go date someone who isn’t insecure.

[BlckGrl]

He has always made jabs at me about other women wanting to fuck and suck him. This is his payback tell him what you tell me

[Shamalien]

Payback, a strong relationship makes not

[NotTacocaT6969]

I get the satisfaction of rubbing his own double standard in his face, but that’s not going to have a happy ending.

That’s just going to start a pissing match until one of you cheats…then it would all have been just a big waste of time for both of you.

[Anonymous]

Black guys like White meat, they were probably checking out your borfriend.

[BlckGrl]

Lol wtf no he wasn't besides me he was ahead of me then turned around because he knew they would speak to me lol

[Anonymous]

You need to give him sense of security if you truly love him

[panamared1]

He is afraid of losing you

[BlckGrl]

Yes he is, especially after he has taken me for granted.

[BlckGrl]

He's extremely possessive with his body language or how he walks with me.

[panamared1]

He should treat you better