Was I wrong to breakup with a guy because he aspired to look like a body builder?

[Anonymous]

Sorry but body building looks bad. But I know what everybody will say-they do it for themselves. I can respect that. But I just don’t find it attractive I actually think it’s one of the things I find repelling

[spartan55]

So why did you start dating him in the first place then?

[Asker]

I liked his personality but he kept walking around with his shirt off in front of me. I felt like he was trying to impress me with his muscles. When I actually hate big muscles and especially big shoulders. I felt awkward because he would like try to seduce me and I would just be catching the ick. I guess for me what turned me off is that he just assumed I liked muscles and that I would start falling for him because he had a nice body. But actually I was overlooking his body because it wasn’t my type but he was a nice person. But the more he would try to flaunt it the weirder it got. I didn’t have the heart to tell him I wasn’t attracted to him because from what he has told me a lot of women do find him attractive. His face is nice and he has a handsome smile but the fact that he kept trying to shove his muscles in my face was just awkward

[spartan55]

Well, to answer your question, you weren't wrong for breaking up with him. You can't force yourself to be attracted to someone.

[2Wheels]

If it's not your thing, that's okay. You have nothing to feel bad about it.

[Sandeeppingping]

Facts, great decision making it does look bad you're not wrong for it

[FilmGuy93]

Meh... whatever floats your boat, I guess.

[Staximus]

It's a sign of obsessive narcissism.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

yes, you were