Haven’t I lost completely with girls 🏳️?

[Anonymous]

Be honest with me.

I got a few matches on tinder in a couple days with no replies. Like I’m worthless junk.

I posted a male fitness model on tinder and he got 15 matches in a few hours and they all replied to him. He’s also white and I’m not which is a big disadvantage I have.

It’s over for me? I don’t feel good enough anymore for a pretty girl.

I can’t believe how much the average girl expects in a guy. Some men have all the luck. I thought I was handsome and tall but obviously not.

I agree you’re not good enough

I disagree you are good enough

[D_Bone_Steak]

You're doing it online, and online dating has turned into a shit show. Those chicks only go for the top 10% of men. Back when Hotornot. com still had the rating system, I was a 9.5 out of 10 and I was lucky to get 3 or 4 matches at best. So maybe I was banging a new girl about once every month or so in reality. But that was way back then and like I said, it has turned into a shit show. Those 3 or 4 matches will be obese fat slags that look like they do drugs, with kids from multiple men already, and tell you they have HPV (whatever the fuck that is) and they'll expect you to be 6'2", rich, a gangsta, extremely physically fit, and to have a giant dick.

I'm telling you this as a 9.5 out of 10 guy. Best thing to do is get offline or off that phone and start doing face to face things where you might meet a girl. I have a fat friend that can't even figure out how to shave his face right and he pulls like 3 girls a week. We go to a restaurant and he'll be banging the waitress in a couple of days... it's ridiculous.

Online game requires exquisite looks and to not talk too much. Basically where everything you say is bullshit or a joke. You say something serious like "paying taxes sucks" and that chick will drop you like a bad habit. The chicks online are there for attention first, and to score a lay with top tier in the looks department. They hook up and get played and then they complain about men. That's like all they are... dumb sluts. Don't say that shit to their face though... oh god they get offended. Yet they get played or thrown into a rotation of women that are all only good for one thing.

[MrOracle]

Tinder is NOT reality - it's a place where women dream of the hottest guys, and where the hottest guys find women to bang. For everyone else, it's a complete waste of time, so stop using Tinder and any other app. Unless you are a top 10% guy, you basically have no chance on a dating app - the apps themselves are designed to encourage you to pay - and then pay some more - the the (usually false) hope of getting matches. If you actually GET a match, then you would stop paying, so the app company (Match owns all the dating apps) "wins" by making sure YOU lose, so that you'll keep paying.

You need to get out into the real world. I'm not saying that it will be easy, but you'll have a far better chance of success in the real world, meeting women face-to-face, then you ever will on a dating app. It's still a numbers game, though, so expect to have to talk to and ask out a lot of women before you get a real success. That's just how the game works for the vast majority of men.

[BoyUFine]

Everyone has many traits that someone will be into. Dont be discouraged and attack yourself super not worth it. Desperation in love is never good... take the time it need :) good luck

[Anonymous]

Your biggest mistake is using Tinder. The whole world is a dating site, try that.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I think dating apps are tricky... not everyone is photogenic and takes good pics of themselves... Some people just don't look good or the same in pictures like they do in person...

[TheSpaceGnome]

Lol no one uses tinder except whores, gold diggers, and sluts. it's a hookup app, not a dating app.

Also preferences vary.

[NamerOfStars]

Maybe Tinder isn't the right place to be looking, then.

[TroyDT]

Tinder is a hookup site. Go meet real women in the real world.