Why don’t guys plan romantic dates anymore?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Agrees w whoever said men are less romantic than women. Men don’t get turned on by this sort of stuff so it doesn’t come natural to most of us. To a man romantic for him would be tacos w some beer or liquor followed by sex. For women it’s more than just that, something that may be simple for you as far as planning cause you know these things better than men. A lot of times men say well I don’t know what men you’re talking about cause I do it, is just a way to get you to talk to them by saying oh you’re so sweet. Then he’d say well if you were my girl I’d do it for you all the time which isn’t going to ever happen. Especially after you get married most men co ti is to do as we’ve always done, work, work, take care of family, go out w our girl a few times.

[TroyDT2]

Which guys? I do, but not till at least the third date when I know she's into me, not just free meals. Anyway, for guys not inclined towards that it is probably because a lot of girls give themselves to guys with the guys expending minimal effort. Because of this the guys figure, "Why spend money when I already get what I want."

You can extend that out to marriage. Why would a guy who already gets the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities want to get married?

[Pyrofox]

A lot of guys do the thing is they are just taken. For the most part what is left to date for women are either the guys who are abstaining from relationships or the leftover fuckboys who ran out of options aka the leftovers.

[Ironic_Method]

If you were planning a date for your partner, what would you do?

[Asker]

It depends on his personality. But I think a nice date would be, going to a nice restaurant, walking after, going home to a nicely dimmed living room with a scented candle burning, watching an oldie movie, cuddling, and then sexy time. My idea of a date is just all the attention on him, good food, long conversation and just a lot of quiet time and intimacy

[Brando10222]

I don't know about others but I do

[ShyNaughtyGuy]

cause guys are less romantic than girls.