Does he like me back?

[Anonymous]

So i work with this guy and he’s really sweet to me and we have a lot of fun together. The other day he invited me to listen to an artist and when we got to our cars he invited me in. we spent 40 minutes in his car listening to music. during this he drank after me and even let me hit his vape. after that i realized i was developing feelings. so, i followed him on instagram and asked if he wanted to hang out. he agreed and we hung out yesterday. we met at a park and he made fun of my driving and so he got in my car and we drove around some backroads, after awhile i was getting low on gas so we headed back to the park. we got in his car and then drove around. it was 5:15 when we got back to my car, he had band practice so i offered to leave and he said he would just skip, even though he could get in trouble for skipping. we then sat in his car talking about everything for a little over a hour. our knees were touching the entire time. we even made (can't tell if it’s serious or not) plans to go to Gatlinburg, TN this winter. it was 6:30 and i knew i had to get home to do homework so i told him the time and grabbed my keys, he said it was a good time so i got out. we kind of talked through his passenger window while i leaned on my car. it got quiet and we were just looking at each other. that’s when i said bye and he said bye and he left. i really want to tell him i like him but i can’t tell if he likes me back. we have been snapping back and forth but he kind of takes a while to respond. can you please tell me you’re opinion?

[Joe-12345]

Oh he definitely does. If he is spending that time with you and he is single. Yup. Stay in contact and your feeling will reveal themselves. You can also trying being direct. That will prevent any confusion or you can wait and play it out and see if he reveal his feelings first. Have fun and be safe.

[Asker]

this was actually SO helpful. he is single but also acts like he doesn’t want a relationship? i want to be direct but i don’t want to ruin a good friendship, especially when i work with him. i was to keep it in the flirty stage for a little while longer after your advice. thank you so much!

[Joe-12345]

Oh yeah no problem.

[Guy13]

It seems like he is in. Speak with him. Know that all guys are not truthful. Good luck 🍀

[Anonymous]

Ask him

[Joe-12345]

Yeah guys can’t read your mind. That is always an option, but also don’t be desperate. On second thought men like a little flirting play too. Don’t be to easy to get. Balance! Defiantly don’t be desperate very unattractive!

[Iron_Man]

You’re too young for vaping and dating

[Asker]

thank you for the advice. the baking was a one time thing. he is 18, a legal adult who can make his own choices, i won’t judge him for that. he is also trying to quit and did not force me to take a hit. i did it because i just wanted to know what it was like. i am 17 and as previously stated he is 18. we are both old enough to be dating, my parents even know about him and they support it. again, thank you for your input.

[In_Trance]

I don't think so