What impressed you at the start of your romance, ?

[weysally]

just a follow up from another post, what impressed me with John was, as soon as I sat down, he folded his paper, to me he meant to talk, also his gorgeous brown eyes

[Puppystarfish23]

How much he cares for other people and doing the right thing. He is so caring and has been though are entire relationship. He comes off a little grumpy at times but he's a sweet heart deep down

[dustybiker]

He was a stranger and stayed with me through a debilitating migraine, as he didn’t want to leave me alone. Not many people would do that.

[dustybiker]

Thank you for the mhg.

[petitedollbabee]

His emotional maturity attracted me to him instantly. He handled difficult situations with ease, he was also very open with me about his traumas and past, and he freely showed his emotions. He isn’t one of those toxic masculinity guys who think that crying or showing emotions means you’re weak.

[OpenClose]

I love this! This is exactly the kind of thing I would want to be appreciated for.

[Anonymous]

How much of a man he was. He wasn’t afraid to approach me. He took the lead in planning our dates. And he always paid and never expected me to. I always say thank you and let him know how much I appreciate it after he buys me dinner or plans a date. And he always responds with “you’re always welcome baby”.


He’s already shown me in many ways that he’s a provider and that he will take care of me. In return, he allows me to be in my feminine energy because he’s so in in his masculine energy.

[OpenClose]

Don't be afraid to change it up, though. I asked a girl out on a coffee date and she showed up 15 minutes early so she could buy me my favorite drink. I melted.

[Opinion Owner]

Awww I love that, thank youuu

[OpenClose]

I loved it too! I'm glad you can appreciate that. Things ultimately didn't work out, mostly just having too dissimilar of interests, but things with her had a different vibe. She moved to Florida, got married, and had a couple kids, and all I felt was happy. Not like I missed out, was rejected, or jealous, but simply feeling happy that she's happy. And I kinda chase that feeling now because it felt SO much healthier.

It's probably why I'm single now. lol. I hear about relationship drama and it gives me cold chills from the relationship I had prior to this girl.

But yeah, I definitely like being able to express myself as a man and be appreciated specifically as a man, but it's also nice to have someone who I don't feel is expecting me to take the lead. I guess it's nice when these things feel optional and appreciated, but not feel like she would lose interest or abandon me when I slip or get depressed.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

I could tell that she was both guarded and submissive at the same time.

Most women are imbalanced. Some are so submissive, they're boring. They will then act surprised when treated like an afterthought as if it isn't their fault for not being special at all.

Others are guarded to the point of being intolerable while stupidly thinking they have the balance down. Usually these women end up blaming men for the bitchy behavior they thought was supposed to be attractive.

This one was a perfect mix.

[RangerBlue22]

All three of my last long term gfs showed me respect on our first dates. They didn’t flake. They didn’t shit test. They didn’t ask unfair and loaded questions. They didn’t expect expensive meals. They weren’t “overly” guarded about my intentions.

Overall they were fair to me and me a real chance.

[24_7_Amazing]

two things... First the woman I'm currently dating has the most amazing smell (I don't know if it's her perfume or her shampoo). Second her attitude - we went out to dinner recently with her friends and it was a fun but she surprised the hell out of me when she suggested sex in my car.

[Anonymous]

Quite a few.. he took me on dates I've never been to before (lake swimming, cliff diving, hikes, etc). i find him genuinely funny.. i got used to fake laughing around the guys i date, but with him my stomach hurts from laughing. He makes an effort to see me and make me happy. He pays attention to what i like and remembers it. He’s patient with me. All these from the first month of seeing each other. We’re exclusive now and it just keeps getting better. (Im obsessed with him).

[Bethany22]

He brought doughnuts for everyone at a social event we were at. It was like he was trying to make a good first impression

[exitseven]

The image of that is really cool. With me we went on our first date. I took her out fishing in my little boat. She was able to bait her own hook.

[Pinay_ako]

He didn’t turn around and ran away when he first laid his eyes on me 🤣

[ryanrhino]

How much at ease we were with each other for our first date, which lasted over 8 hours.

[Nikki1989]

His sense of humour and generosity which continues to this day.

[Iron_Man]

Her pursuit of me and her beautiful words on gag

[Iron_Man]

And of course her beauty

[TonightYouu]

I loved how after our first time whenever we would be about to have sex coco would always blush super hard

[ChrissyChriss]

The way he remembered all the little details about me 🥺🥰 love him so much

[Calenderagressive]

Well she's a strong, smart guy, she's into philosophy I'm into philosophy and she knows neo Erickson hypnosis which i want to learn.

[Anonymous]

humor and respect for other people and elders

[NathanDavis]

that I didn't run away from it

[Hairylegs222]

Their bewbs 😍

[Karenjjj]

Bruh 😭

[weysally]

@Karenjjj what is this?

[AddylynnNightingale]

How much we had in common.

[Ninania]

Humility, kindness and respect.