He talks to me one day then her the next, what game is he playing at?

[Anonymous]

There this guy I met at my university and he originally told me he was interested in me. I was semi reluctant because he he seemed kinda jock-ish and boring but after getting to know him he was a sweetheart. Now he’s playing games with this me and this other girl in our class. 1 day he’ll ignore me and talk to her then text me later after not saying anything and on the next day he’ll talk to me but completely ignore her. When he does this he makes cute it’s audible or viable to the other. What game is he playing, it honestly just pisses me off?

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*makes sure it’s audible

[kylee2437]

Either way, seems like he’s not interested in either of you enough to commit to just one. You shouldn’t want to be apart of that, so honestly just face the facts and don’t take him seriously

[athelete_7]

He likes both of u. Run away. U fell for him he s keeping both of u hooked u dont deserve soneone like him. U desrve someone faithful. If u feel he s playing talk to him. If he again does this have self respect and walk away. Its better than woreying about games.

[Anonymous]

Well clearly it's working. 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

I never respond to his texts and I try to acknowledge him as little as possible. If he wants her her can go be with her. Im just wondered what the fuck he’s trying to do?

[Opinion Owner]

What does it matter.

[Asker]

because it pisses me off and despite Being done with him I should be allowed to be informed on what bullshit someone tries to pull on me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but we could give you a half a dozen reasons why. And it could be any one of them. No one can know EXACTLY what's in his head. But back to my original comment. Clearly you both liked/like him. He's probably an attractive guy, used to lots of women giving him attention, knows exactly what you want to hear, and shameless enough to say it. Is it wrong? Well now we're getting into opinion. Is it wrong the gauntlet of games women put men through?
Like I said why do you care. Be mad if you like. But I don't see how that makes anything better. It's not like knowing why is going to change anything.

[Asker]

he’s short he’s not even that cute he was funny enough to get my attention and the other girl is incredibly popular so I don’t know if she liked him. To be clear I never showed interest in him while I liked him as in I never approached or flirted with him and if you think all women play mind games your either talking to the wrong women or you’re severely misinterpreting them just being nice. 90% of women just want a genuine decently attractive who cares about them. In my personal experience not all but there are a lot more guys only interested in sex, superficiales, talking to multiple girls at once, and playing games.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure he's short and unattractive which is why you liked him. Exposed! Have a nice day.🤣🙂

[LimitedBenefits101]

Let the playa play.