I don’t understand, why does my Scorpio guy friend keeps buying me gifts but he says he is not looking for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

We were dating last week and everything was going good. Till I said “we need space from each other since we are dealing with our own stuff and I’m not in the right state of mind.” He listened and agreed. Then he started buying me gifts and told me he wants to travel all around the world cause love is not in his destiny. I wished him the best in life but he doesn’t want to lose me from his and I asked if he wants to give our relationship another chance, but he told me no. He says our relationship has no label or words.

So I don’t understand, why buy me gifts and not let me go?

[DeltaRecon]

When you told him you need space, he placed you in a new category of maybe just friends with benifits.

Guys have issues sometimes when girls tell them they need space. Until they understand that woman need time to think things out, they figure the woman have no feelings toward them and sometimes will close the door to a relationship.

I don’t know how long you were dating, but if it was only for one week, you basically shut him down and now need to chase him for a couple weeks if you actually want to pursue a relationship.

[Wise4myage]

He's trying to buy your affection.