We’ve been friends with benefits for over a year and a half now. Recently he has told me he wants to make fun of his size while in bed. I did and he got very turned on. This is weird to me. Why would he want me to make fun of him. I mean he is on the smaller side so I feel bad telling him things he wants me to say.
He likely has a kink or fetish for being humiliated. I am not familiar with this sort of thing, but I have seen it mentioned on this site numerous times. Some guys like to be humiliated and actually get aroused or turned on by the idea.
If it is something you are not comfortable with, don't do it. That goes for any intimate activity. Both parties have to be consenting and respectful of the other person's feelings.
You don't sound real comfortable in the details of your question. I would sit down and talk to him about this and express why you don't want to do it. Communication is key in relationships and intimacy.
You have to tell him why you don't want to. If have has even the slightest respect for you, he will back off and leave it be. If you are okay with it, so be it. What you and he do between your four walls is your business.
He’s into sph. Small penis humiliation. He’s turned on by how you put so much emphasis on his penis. Belittling his penis or complimenting his penis. It’s all stimulation. Me personally I have a 6.2” long erect penis but I Love it when I hear a female say penis. Makes me erect in no time. But if you say cock or dick - my penis will go soft in no time. 🙁
What precisely did he say? Tell me how small my dick/cock is or how small my penis is?
If you two decide to follow up with this - say Penis - it’s more personal and hits home 👍🙂
I know I like to be made fun of when I get caught masturbating one time my third cousin saw me masturbating and called me a little boy cause she believes only teens and young ones should masturbate and it didn't bother me but made me turned on more yes she was only my third cousin but made fun of me.
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I don't agree with what you're doing with him. I think friends with benefits is wrong but, if you want to keep doing it, I can't tell you what you can/can't do with your body, right, republicucks?
I think he likely just wants you to do something different in bed
Probably because you’re friends with benefits. Do you expect someone like that to be someone whose not just a weird degenerate?
That is strange but whatever. Is it messing up the vibe for you? Does it grow larger after every time you sing Itzy Bitzy Tiny Weenie to him?
Well, only he could possibly know. If he's happy, though, I wouldn't worry about it
He's kinky.
You could try to toy with some other humiliating things but be careful - you don't want to hit a nerve by mistake.
Definitely some kind of humiliation fetish
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