Why did he start to call me miss does he like me?

[Anonymous]

There's guy I like there's a attraction from our energy and the way we interact. I always say Hi or thanks acting more interactive and he says hi morning or hi looking happy to see me. His voice always softer with me. He doesn't say as much to anyone else. The other day getting off the bus (he's a bus driver) he didn't say anything to anyone only me he said you welcome smiling I had eye lashes done at the time he seemed to notice. It was some time before I saw him again about 3 months. There were two buses I glanced in and I didn't look properly , walked off to one in front after I looked back at the other bus I noticed it was him right before getting on the other bus. Started looking at him he was looking my direction , took out phone to look busy avoiding eye contact felt awkward. Didn't realise how bad it looked like I rejected him. The next time I saw him he didn't acknowledge me avoided looking me p cold vibe. He's never acted that way to me. I realised it was because of last time. I made extra effort to show him I like him with my actions paying him more attention , giving him good eye contact smiling etc. Skipped the bus in front knowing his was coming behind everyone was getting on the one in front. The last couple of days had him to and from work he's changed back to his usual way with me. Talking differently to me acting nicer. He did a seat check and he came stand close to while checking the back seats I wasn't near the back. He started to say have a nice day to me often not to others I do the same sometimes he'll say thank you later on in the day if I see him he say it to me. Wore skirt caught him turning his head taking a second look at me as I walked on. As I was getting off the bus I always get off before I could thank him first he wished me have a nice day. I said thanks a lot have a nice day he responded thank you miss have a nice day. Thought that was weird he started to call me miss? He didn't say that to anyone else.

[Massageman]

I'd say he certainly has interest about you at SOME level. Now, try to find out what level it might be. At my 50th H. S. reunion, there was a gal that I NEVER would have thought would have given me the time of day : she said she kind of had a "secret crush" on me in H. S.. She was more of a "socialite" and I was more of a "nerd"- who would have figured! And she held up super well considering she was about 67-68 years old! So, don't make the same mistakes I made - - - - - You miss 100% of the targets you never shoot at!!!

Get creative - maybe give him a gift card from a local burger place/ coffee shop/ donut diner/ whatever, and a card "you must get SOOO hungry after a day driving people. I wouldn't mind feeding you and giving you a back rub at the end of your shift". Or, bring him a 6 pack of glazed cider donuts and a coffee at the start/end of his route. Add a little "To/From" card with your phone number.

[Asker]

Gave him my number on Friday finally only took me 2 months didn't see him last month.
I wished him to have a good new years he gave a little wink as I was saying it. Handed him the note and he was like what is this. Acted coy say you'll see he opening fast I got off the stairs he shouted have nice day I said you too. He hasn't said anything yet. The note said lets get to know each other with my number and name.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve seen this question before I told you to sit behind him and talk to him

[Asker]

He still seems interested? does he seem shy or waiting for me to make a move?

[Iron_Man]

A bus driver can only do so much driving a bus. Sit behind him and talk to him and then when you leave slip him your phone number on a piece of paper. If the front seat is not available, talk as much as you can and when you leave, give him your phone number.

[Asker]

Does he still like me if he's started calling me miss? is he shy? I usually get off last stop been planning to give him my number last 2 days wasn't able to he was i conversation ticket issue yesterday and today the old couple were waiting for me to go first. Next time I will

[Asker]

Is he probably hoping I make a move? maybe thinks I have a guy or scared of rejection even if its obvious and then cause he's at work

[Iron_Man]

Yes, he likes you he’s
respectful and good finally you’re gonna do something

[Iron_Man]

If you give him your phone number, it’s problem solved. It’s up to him now. Good luck. Let me know what happens.

[Asker]

It's like the miss he added was a pet name when he said it. First time he said that
or I could ask him for his number or is it better to leave the ball in his court or swap numbers?
He definitely isn't married either I checked

[Iron_Man]

Cute girl yes good job to be soon

[Asker]

Has he picked that I like him too thats why he's acting more positive too or maybe unsure?

[Iron_Man]

Yes…

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpful Award

[Asker]

No worries still working on giving him my number. I went in to get the bus twice today after I saw his bus passing i the morning went back in specifically to give the number and got shy last minute had the paper in pocket. He didn't say as much today maybe he was tired long day or cause I acted more shy too picking up on the energy of each other. I notice if I act shy he acts shy if I'm more confident he's the same. he still calling me miss said see you miss mind.
I realise I should avoid the chit chat making it more difficult. Now I will simply hand him the number have it my hand ready. Next attempt I hope.

[Asker]

Gave him my number today finally only took me 2 months didn't see him last month.
I wished him to have a good new years he gave a little wink as I was saying it. Handed him the note and he like what is this. Acted coy say you'll see he opening fast I got off he shouted have nice day I said you too. He hasn't said anything yet. The note said lets get to know each other :) with my number and name

[Iron_Man]

Awesome hopefully he calls you and has the courage to do it

[Asker]

Hope so did he sound happy to receive the number? How long should it take for him to text or call this was in the morning around 1pm.

[Asker]

Maybe he could be playing it cool not too eager I think he interested probably caught him off guard too.

[Asker]

I'll see if he calls or texts he seems kinda shy type I think hope he doesn't take too long. He might be trying to think of what to say

[Iron_Man]

He probably should be texting you in the next three days

[Iron_Man]

Congratulations let me know what happens

[Iron_Man]

Some guys don’t want to seem too eager

[Asker]

Oh right did he sound interested from his reaction to the note? I thought it be opposite if interested text asap I guess if he's shy maybe thinking of what to say hope I made his day.

[Iron_Man]

That’s just me I like to have a three day rule so I don’t seem too desperate but maybe that’s not too good

[Iron_Man]

Seems like he’s interested you’ll find out within the next week

[Iron_Man]

Hopefully he’s single make sure

[Asker]

I think is I hope anyway that be the reason if he doesn't. I think he is single from our interactions. He didn't give too much away either if he would call or text as I was getting off other than the shouting have a nice day before I was off. Probably read it by then he was definitely taken by surprise. I avoided getting his bus home wanted to give him time to come to me.

[Iron_Man]

This is great. I hope it works out for you. Let me know.

[Asker]

Thanks hope he doesn't take too long

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome. Let’s hope not how old is he

[Asker]

He looks mid to late 30s I think

[Iron_Man]

Cool

[Iron_Man]

OK I have to drive now. I wish you the best of luck.

[Asker]

Thanks still nothing yet it , I probably picked the busiest time with new years and that he probably working

[Iron_Man]

Its very soon give it time

[Iron_Man]

If he doesn’t call go back and say hey you never called me and put on a cute pouting face and find out

[Iron_Man]

Ask if he’s single

[Asker]

I think there’s a chances he’s working today driving I know men are different they focus on one thing at a time. And busy weekend hopefully hear soon lol. Does he act single how he interacts? He definitely gave me that cheeky wink and he interacted after he read the note saying have a nice day

[Iron_Man]

Will see what happens

[Asker]

Does he seem interested from his reaction getting the number? I think he’s definitely a shy guy

[Iron_Man]

Yes he does 👍

[Asker]

I’ll see what happens he’s probably trying to think of what to say lol. Pretty sure I caught him off guard

[Iron_Man]

I hope it goes well for you both

[Asker]

Same hopefully he doesn’t leave me waiting long and act normal if I see him on his bus

[Iron_Man]

Is this in the USA 🇺🇸

[Iron_Man]

What race is he because I can tell on how people act some races are more aggressive

[Asker]

Ireland but he’s a foreign guy European I think so not sure how they act

[Iron_Man]

Oh, I’m not familiar with European bus drivers, so this is all in Ireland? Isn’t it almost New Year’s there?

[Asker]

Yeah it is late here , think he’s probably the same maybe waiting the 3 days or til he’s not busy do I act normal when I see him? if on his bus again etc sure I’ll hear from him I hope

[Iron_Man]

You do what I told you to do on the other post

[Asker]

Not sure id be confident to be like you didn’t call or ask why. I feel like if he had someone else he wouldn’t have interacted again wishing me a nice day. I’ll see hopefully just he’s been busy working coach drivers probably have busy schedules. Has to think of plan or what to say etc. Never done the in real life dating online it’s not like this

[Iron_Man]

Say it in a cute way get to the bottom of it this is been going on for months

[Iron_Man]

It’s up to him now. If he doesn’t call you, you pretty much have your answer.

[Asker]

I’ll see what happens still early days I think he worked today hope tomorrow or soon he’ll have time to reach out lol

[Iron_Man]

Good 👍🏻

[Asker]

Thanks hopefully it’s all good hate the waiting game I wish I asked for his number instead or maybe he lost the number

[Asker]

Still nothing yet I definitely picked busiest time of year to give the number I wonder he kept it

[Asker]

Still not heard anything then again its only Sunday he might wait til like Tuesday or Wednesday if he's wants to make a plan I know men like to plan last minute. Suppose it's different when you've already met the person in real life not like online

[Iron_Man]

I hope he calls you 👍🏻

[Asker]

Hopefully or texts whichever easiest call would be a surprise. If we texted today it would be small talk I know men wait until during the week to plan focused on the here now. I don't think he has a girlfriend like stayed silent after reading note in a oh sh*t way. I was already off the bus and stairs when he interacted again could've easily not said anything didn't wish anyone else a nice day either

[Iron_Man]

Let’s hope he text you or calls you keep me updated

[Asker]

Will do so far you think it’s good sign how he acted at the time. Tempted to get his bus act normal not mention anything see if he says anything or not I’m going to run into him again either way. Maybe he say he forgot to call or maybe girlfriend don’t think so he definitely been flirting more than usual and the wink he never does that. I keep forgetting real life is different to online men

[Iron_Man]

Sounds good i’m just concerned about if he’s going to call or not

[Iron_Man]

How many days has it been now

[Asker]

Since Friday around 2pm. 3 days but I guess this weekend is a busy weekend nye and day , probably should give him til like Monday or Tuesday or Wednesday? Maybe he lost the number either

[Iron_Man]

Good idea

[Asker]

I think he was working Saturday saw the bus reg he was driving. Suppose I’ll see as the week passes lol imagine he takes a week or two to reach out , tbh there has been a time a guy took a week to text me cause he was busy working etc

[Asker]

I’ll see anyway Sunday too early to plan he’s flirted a lot either way I guess he’s flattered he got the number ego boost for him. I’ll try not to worry too much. Not had the time I see how he acts if I see him before

[Iron_Man]

If he doesn’t do anything, take the bus Wednesday, talk to him

[Asker]

Don't want to seem like I'm chasing or demanding guess even see how he acts if he's the same or maybe he'll say why he hasn't reached out yet. Think he's likely busy so far

[Iron_Man]

When you’re ready, get on the bus and talk to him

[Asker]

I was thinking dress nice and play it cool still act the way I usually did see how he reacts since I’ve thrown the ball in his court maybe he’ll be extra nice I don’t think he’ll act cold

[Iron_Man]

I’m afraid that’s going to turn into a bus acquaintance but yes act friendly and dress up. but I think you need to ask about calling me if you let your pride get in the way you could fail

[Asker]

Maybe something silly like he put the number in his phone wrong and lost the paper. Hopefully tomorrow or Tuesday he’ll say something

[Iron_Man]

Or Texting

[Iron_Man]

Oh you’re going that soon? Good

[Asker]

Oh I’m trying to protect the ego too much or maybe ask if he lost the paper. I wish I asked for his number instead or stayed to get a response after giving the note

[Asker]

Oh no not yet still giving it time maybe til Tuesday at least

[Iron_Man]

You could do that and yes, Tuesday is fine. You bring up a good point yes why don’t you ask for his phone number and you’ll finally find out I like that idea 👍🏻

[Asker]

Oh I meant I probably should've asked for his now I already gave him mine wait on him to reach out

[Iron_Man]

Ok alright

[Asker]

Still nothing or maybe he just has someone else attracted to me and just flirts he can’t help maybe he keeps the number in case they break up either or something

[Iron_Man]

Go tomorrow and ask

[Asker]

I’ll see if I find him but you think he was interested in some way? He seems to be very attracted to me I think by how he acts maybe he’s shy either not sure what to say waiting til he sees me again

[Iron_Man]

Go find out tomorrow ok 👍

[Asker]

I’ll try if I see him , he maybe just shy hasn’t got a clue what to say although if anything maybe he’ll be more attracted after getting the number. Does he come across as shy guy?

[Iron_Man]

Yes he is

[Asker]

Oh you think he’s shy too that’s why you want me to ask him you think there’s good chance? . I probably had him lost for words. I do get told I’m attractive a lot

[Iron_Man]

You have to ask him he’s to dhy

[Iron_Man]

Shy…:

[Asker]

Oh right so more likely he’s shy not that he’s not interested. Or maybe I could say you forgot to text me.
I guess I’ll see how he acts next time he sees me if he’s more happy flirty or more playing it cool. So far he’s been flirty more over time

[Iron_Man]

Wait I’m on the phone with AT&T get back soon

[Asker]

Thanks sorry for all the questions

[Iron_Man]

It’s fine yes go on Tuesday and give it your best shot

[Asker]

Or I was thinking of saying you forgot to text?’ Depending on his reply if says busy etc and ask for his number. Or if something like girlfriend etc say that’s cool don’t worry about it. Maybe has the number not sure what to say or still shy or he thinking it’s friendly if he’s shy

[Iron_Man]

Say that get his phone number if he doesn’t do anything obviously he’s got another woman in his life or he’s really scared

[Asker]

Yeah I’ll see what do you think is most likely? The shyness or potential girlfriend
Lol really scared

[Iron_Man]

Honestly, I have no idea but go today. I don’t know what time it is in Ireland but you’ll find out your answer today. If he doesn’t offer you his phone number if he doesn’t say anything about calling you than move on with your life it’s a waste of time for a scared bus driver that offers nothing and does nothing

[Asker]

Lmao you think he’s scared or shy hope see him tomorrow not sure or whenever I see him I’ll still do that

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s got a girlfriend maybe he just wants flirting for an Ego Boost maybe he’s shy maybe he hasn’t gotten around to it yet, who knows but today you will find out. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know what happens. Make sure you get your words in don’t panic resolve the problem today

[Asker]

Hopefully I’ll see him if driving same I’ll ask whenever I see him next. Probably be sooner , hope it’s just he’s too shy didn’t know what to say lm realizing let’s get to know each other maybe was vague

[Iron_Man]

Ask for his numbers 👍

[Asker]

I’m not sure if maybe he thinks I’m shy or seems like we’re both hopefully soon I’ll find out. Or is he acting weird when he sees me I don’t think he will

[Iron_Man]

Go now

[Asker]

I’m a little nervous when I see him next but I guess he already knows I like him now doesn’t make a difference

[Iron_Man]

Go right now

[Asker]

Saw him wasn’t last off 2nd last said happy new year he said thanks you enjoy your evening
Got to shy to ask I’ll ask next time

[Asker]

Probably looked like I was playing it cool or something is it still ok to ask next time? Or maybe he reach out after seeing me

[Asker]

I noticed h waited to me to sit down before driving off too I went near the back so maybe watched me an he changed to have a good evening. Maybe he’s shy taking time to warm up o we’re both shy

[Iron_Man]

Wow you blew it you chickened out what a waste of time

[Asker]

I was going out anyway only cause these girls behind me was waiting for me to get off first. Will he think I was playing it cool or something? I can still ask next time be off last hopefully guess shows giving him a chance to reach out. Does he still seem shy?

[Iron_Man]

Go ahead then ask him tomorrow

[Asker]

Are things still good with him you think? I think it’s good maybe shy too lol?

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is

[Asker]

Are we both just shy? You think he’s still interested?

[Iron_Man]

Yes you both are and yes he likes you

[Asker]

I was dressed up too I’m not sure if he wondered if I was dressed up for him or going somewhere. Gave him same attention only didn’t get off last cause people were waiting maybe he wondered why I wasn’t off last or maybe not was only 2nd last hopefully next time I can interact better.

[Iron_Man]

You have to seal the deal this has been dragging on for quite a while

[Asker]

I think it’s getting close hopefully maybe good thing I didn’t ask about the message right away so it didn’t look like I went in specifically for that. Next time I can try suppose giving him time. Wish I was off last to see more today at least he saw me looking good maybe he text soon or maybe not now days gone by he’s just shy. Probably good he changed the to have a good evening he didn’t do that to anyone so a bit personal with me

[Iron_Man]

Go tomorrow

[Iron_Man]

Wednesday

[Asker]

Would he be thinking about me more after seeing me today? Was going to give it time or til like Friday or something try so given him a chance to reach out.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think he’s going to call you. I think he’s really shy he seems interested. But looks like you’re gonna have to make the move

[Asker]

Oh right you think he’s definitely shy for sure still interested? So he’s probably not sure what to message?
We do kinda only small talk but seems like we talk more extra he just said bye to others who said thanks etc.
Will he be thinking about me more today after seeing me?

[Iron_Man]

Get the phone number if not, you’re wasting another trip for nothing

[Asker]

Oh right so he’s also shy I thought giving him my number would change it although more he’s confident that he knows I like him. Do you think he’ll bring it up or is he following my lead? Waiting for me to do something more. An you think he’s still single only shy?

[Iron_Man]

Just ask him

[Asker]

Do you think he kept the number? Just not sure what to do? I’m hoping he’ll get confidence after seeing me at least he’s still acting nice he didn’t act awkward I was probably nervous seeing him again. I guess he’s waiting on me maybe to realise he’s shy? I definitely thought he would reach out

[Iron_Man]

Yes he did but go now and Ask for his 👍

[Asker]

I can’t go today working late this week. Oh so you he has the number not doing anything with it , I hope he surprises me and texts. I was so sure he would text me lol . Is he waiting on me to move now? I’m not used to making the moves next time I will act confident if he’s mutually interested and attracted?

[Iron_Man]

You have to do all the work he won’t

[Asker]

Oh right so he’s more a submissive or passive guy? Acts different to confident guy I definitely done most already trying to show him I like him etc and he picked up on it an reacted back. He doesn’t mind me doing the more work he prefers it that way?

[Iron_Man]

I have to search through 128 replies my thumb hurts lol

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know what he is, but he doesn’t do anything

[Asker]

Sorry all questions lol I guess he’s more submissive he flirts with me and acts extra maybe not type to take the lead or until he knows me better

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you private message me it’s more easier to talk about your future boyfriend then it is going through 135 replies then trying to find your last post