Why did my crush stopped talking to me after I said I couldn’t hang out cuz I was tired?

[Anonymous]

It’s been days my since my crush asked me to hang out. He kept asking and I said I couldn’t because I was too tired.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because it sounds like "go away".

Imagine you and this person were married. Would you tell him "go away, i'm tired", or would you tell him "come to bed, i'm tired"

If you really like them, even just lounging around on the couch until you fall asleep is considered quality time.

[Asker]

But he knows I like him and I usually agree to hanging out

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah but stuff like that can make a person think you changed your mind about them.

[Asker]

Ooo okay that makes sense, should I hit him up?

[Asker]

Oh yeah and we agreed to hang out the next day but he didn’t message

[spartan55]

Uh... okay... why would he keep talking to you when you clearly aren't interested?

[Asker]

I always say yes to hanging out only that time cuz I was tired and he knows I like him :(

[spartan55]

Does he? How do you know that for sure?

[dustybiker]

Turn someone down enough you have to explain yourself better.

[Asker]

I always say yes to hanging out, only that time I said no because I was too tired and then he starts not texting me :(

[dustybiker]

He’s sensitive. Probably best to explain everything to him if he is like that. Just give him a bit more detail.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true but I don’t wanna seem desperate since he knows I like him

[dustybiker]

Communication is key.

[Asker]

What if he thinks I’m desperate

[dustybiker]

Then he isn’t worth the effort. He seems pretty high maintenance himself.

[dustybiker]

Thank you for selecting mho.