Confused... I think he's a player?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to a guy for a while now. We met at the gym and he asked me for my social media after two weeks or so. I had the gut he has a girlfriend but then he started to act in a way he shouldn't if he does. If he has a girlfriend I don't understand why he flirts with me via text. I think he knows I'm interested in him for the way he talks and asks me things (e. g. he told me he knows I like to see him at the gym because my face says it all when we talk or that I find him attractive. Also texted me that maybe he should kiss my wrinkles? idgi). Today he hugged me at the gym, I was surprised because we barely know each other to do that lol I thought he was asking for a high five. Then I asked if he still lives with his parents and said he doesn't, but didn't tell me with whom he lives (I know I should've asked...) and his face turned serious. I never asked directly but when the conversation goes in the direction that he should mention his girlfriend, he doesn't. I think he notices I'm interested and is just playing with me, what do you think?

[Anonymous]

Isn't the gym like the real-life Tinder?
I would be extremely careful here. He may have a girlfriend but is acting single to get laid.
I am old school. If a guy likes you he asks for your number, not your social media. Social media is a good way to cover up cheating.

[Asker]

that's what I thought about the social media thing... I found it weird because I'd ask for the number too. I'll be careful, thank you

[Opinion Owner]

Good idea! All the best 😄

[spartan55]

So, you have no evidence he has a girlfriend, NONE. So instead of actually finding out what his relationship status is you just go ahead and assume he has one. Wtf is that?