Does he really mean it?

[Anonymous]

So, I had a fight with him. He was busy with his work and I was poking him to talk about our future plans. He said he would talk once he gets over with his work but I kept troubling him (I kept calling him for more than 80x) . And then he yelled that he was just playing with me, he wasn’t serious and ended things. He blocked me everywhere. (I know it was my fault I was troubling him when he was busy. I shouldn’t have done that. I was just too worried about the future. )

Does he really mean what he said? Is it seriously over? I know the answer to my question but I feel that things aren’t over yet, he is just mad.

[ManOnFire]

I think if a lover would go that far and end things with you because you kept bugging him like that, that the decision was somewhere in his heart already. He could be playing a joke, a very bad one, but I don't think so.

However, it is kind of psychotic on your part to call the guy more than 80 times. That's pretty extreme.

[Asker]

So I should accept it and move on?

[ManOnFire]

I think you should do no contact for a while and see what happens. If he doesn't turn around and rethink things after a week or so, then I think you'll know he was serious.

I say a week in this situation because it's not a normal 'breakup' where you could do no contact for a month or more. He shouted at you and then just suddenly ended it, and we want to see if he'll actually turn back around and fix it.

But for the love of God, do not EVER ring somebody 80 times again. That would definitely piss them off.

[Asker]

It’s been 2 week he didn’t contact me :/

[ManOnFire]

Then there is your answer unfortunately.

[Asker]

Oh okay. Thanks for replying :)