Why do boys suffer from break up months later? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

I don't suffer much from breakup. I am a career oriented person, my career and being successfull is more important to me than having a girlfriend and male friends. When I feel upset I watch porn and fuck a call girl. I don't need a girlfriend, it's a waste of time and money. I can get sex anytime without any strings attached. I have had sex with women from all races and nationalities. It's better than a bad relationship or bad marriage.

[exitseven]

Yes, guys convince themselves that they are okay with the breakup and it is just a minor inconvenience. They do not allow themselves to feel bad and it just ends up extending the process.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe because we don't get love given to us as often or as easily as you do so, when we get it and it's suddenly taken away from us, it's a world-crushing thing!

[genericname85]

well depends on who broke up. if he was broken up with, he could suffer for months or years after. if he broke up, he could be fine the day after.

[nolabels]

I've been there.

It can be pretty bad.

Why?

No idea.

[lucas262]

Girls never seem to understand, we don't get nearly the attention or positive feedback they do. It might be months before he meets someone again. He may have genuinely cared for you how could I know.

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes guys take breakups really hard too. But they mostly hide it better than we do.

[Vegasrunner]

He can't get laid and now us frustrated that he didn't have a side piece so he could be prepared for the breakup.

[shanshu]

As men we can't show how women hurt us by not being together, by society we have to be masuline and not feminine so we wait awhile till you don't see us and we release out pain slowly

[art84]

My brother was depressed when he left his girlfriend but was happy then came the whole sadness and not wanting to do anything.

[Anonymous]

Guys by societal norms are not allowed to show pain. So we bury it. But it has to come out at some point. And sometimes when it does it's not pretty or controlled.

[Luopio27]

I guess we learn to apreciate the little things more when they are gone.

[Shy_Steve]

Because most of us Guys don't know how to Flirt and a lot of us Guys probably won't be able to tell if a Girl is Flirting with us.

[Hush97]

Sounds like it was pretty real for you two. Maybe he felt like it was gonna be okay at first but realized he just loved you so much.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

While girls show their sorrow, guys try to hide it

[Anonymous]

Suffer? Lol I always have backup plan so I don't even suffer few minutes. 😊

[Anonymous]

That long without getting any has an effect.

[dustybiker]

They are better at denial? Could be anything.

[BigschlongEnergy]

No Idea I’m not a Boy I’m a man.

[Danny_dan92]

Because it takes while for it to kick in