He could be busy some days and just doesn’t have time to respond.
The other thing that is possible is he may feel he is initiating more than you and wants to see the same from you.
He may also as you feel, that maybe he will scare you off by seeming desperate, so sometimes he may just tell himself to back off.
He may also like to just take a break from it here and there. My wife starts getting annoyed sometimes at responding to stuff or will not respond at all because she feels she is to busy to respond for one second. So I pretty much don’t send anything sometimes to just give her a break and wait to respond and talk in person.
He might have attachment issues. if this is a new partner, he might be scared that this won't last and so he doesn't bother to be consistent. he might even think that his feelings aren't being reciprocated. If you been dating for a while, then you might be leaving the honeymoon phase. This may sound cynical but I'm sure if you bring up these concerns or even just ask him if he's feeling okay, tell him you appreciate his affection. hopefully he'll feel more encouraged to love you the way you want him to.
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