He has a very a sweet side. He messages me everyday, tells me how great I look, sends me stuff like memes and videos and offered to pay for my hair do etc. The sex wasn't regular cause both of us working and I would constantly act like I didn't like him. On our last hookup he recently said he missed his ex. Because we were just casual, I told him he can fix things with her because tbh I started falling for him and I didn't want to like him but I wanted him. They got back but then I told him I wanted him. Yes confusing. However he still comes to see me at home where we hang out. He also told me that we was gonna stop have sex because of his girlfriend but he's still putting himself out there for me. I'm so confused. I think he liked me but I don't know. HELPπ€£
When tf did we become a society of people who have sex then find out if they like each other? Wtf happened to Romance?
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Seems heβs using you for sex. When you jump right into bed with someone. Red flag
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He may like you but he sounds conflicted. In addition, if he's willing to cheat on his current girlfriend with you, he may cheat on you with someone else. Sounds like impending heartache, better to stay away.
You think he said the Ex statement solely to make you jealous and move toward LTR?
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too
There is an Ex in the word Sex for a reason.
He does like having no strings attached sex with you
Not that there is anything amiss but the signals sound that he is fond of you, perhaps eager to share his gentalia with you but I wouldn't shirt list him for long term
Doesn't matter if he does, until he's single you can't be with him sexually. You shouldn't tell him. you like him until he's single, because you don't want a guy who will dump a girl to date as another girl.
He likes you enough for the sex.
If it seems like he's giving mixed signals - big surprise! - he IS.
Stop putting out and see how his signals change.
Don't do this to yourself. MOVE ON.slut alert
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