Guys, My most recent ex message me today just to check if I was okay is he still not over even thought its been 5 months?

[Anonymous]

he didn't sound drunk when he called me and when i asked why he called me, he said he jus wanted to check if i was doing okay. do guys do that with there exes. we ended on a sora bad note we got int a really big fight over one of my guy friends cause he didn't trust me or he was just really insecure. I didn't mind him going on two day trip with his girl bestfriend to help her adopt a dog , whats wrong with my guy friend and i gong to the movies since he hates marvel and i didn't wanna go by myself after he said no when i asked. well he asked if i was okay then he hung up, finals are comin up and i do get a lof of headaches during this time so i guess thats y he called but i don't see y he felt the need to remember that about. do any other guys do this with their ex. don't get him at all.

[Jdjfjcjj]

You both are oblivious on how to act in relationships. As you'll get older, you'll be answer the question you asked that end yourself.

I'll also state that if we disregard how he went to visit some other girl, for the sake of argument, his disapproval in you going to see a movie with another guy does not equate to insecurity.
Women need to stop trying to manipulate men by saying this.

An insecure man would be someone who disapproves was is to weak to say anything because he doesn't want to be thought of as insecure.

And a man who doesn't care about his girl being alone with another man, is not really a man then. Its in a man's nature to be territorial with his girl.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I give you both credit for being honest with each other on what your plans were and who you were going with though.

[Asker]

the thing is i found out after he went on the trip with her to get her dog claiming he forgot, i told him a week before and he said he was okay with me going and hanging out with my friend so no props on his side. And he didn't apologize after i thought i did something wrong after he ignored me for two days, the two days he was with her for. And he didn't even apologize but instead asked y i called him so much for the past two days, then called me being mad about it overreacting and the most dumb thing is tha i was the one who ended up apologizing for being mad. i get so mad thinking about it.

[Anonymous]

Sounds as though he wasn’t ready to give you up. He still cares about you. As for why he got upset about you going w another dude, well that’s cause he was jealous. Besides other men know how other men think especially if you’re cute. So he may not have trusted your friend but took it out on you. It needs to be the same across the board. He shouldn’t be able to go w his friend who is a girl on a trip if you can’t go to a movie w a male friend for a couple hours. He spent two days w her, you 3 hours at the most. He’s not over you.

[Asker]

Then y won't he simply just say that instead of calling me toxic and saying he can't trust and i'm a bad person as all of his friends have told. They know i'm not like that and wouldn't do anything. I'm the one who asked him out in the first place since he only said he liked me back which i waited for him to pop the question for like a whole month. Saying he can't trust that nth happened after i literally sent him snaps during the movie but i didn't hear anything from him when he drove his girl best friend for two freaking days to get a dumb dog. I admit that i got mad and said some hurtful stuff like he wasn't even that good in bed or that other guys were also interested in me but it really hurt my feelings when he told me to sleep with him cause he didn't trust me. I felt so stupid even tho he apologized which was completely insincere if i might add like he just wanted to get it over with and then went to say that what he did didn't match the 'gravity' of my actions.

[Anonymous]

He's probably just curious about how you feel.

[Asker]

feel about what exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

About life in general.

[Snedger____]

He's just bored. Ignore

[Asker]

that thought did cross my mind

[Nahid1707]

You should move on