Why did he reject my hug?

[Karenjjj]

So this guy likes me pretty obvious he’s always making physical contact and touches my waist etc even put his number in my phone just very obvious stuff that he likes me but today when he was leaving and about to give me a fist bump I asked why he never gives me a hug and he awkwardly blushed and laughed and asked what’s wrong with a fist bump and I asked what’s wrong with a hug and he went silent just acting weird and goes maybe next week you’ll get a hug and gives me a fist bump and leaves like wtf does that even mean if he likes me what’s wrong with a simple hug

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. Maybe he likes you but feels uncomfortable with it. Maybe try asking him out? Maybe he just likes you as a friend though.

Just don’t push the issue. For whatever reason he didn’t want to and if he does. He will come around

[Karenjjj]

He literally can’t keep his hands off me all day at work and he keeps making excuses to talk to me or touch me get close etc and recently he even started touching my waist and lower back I love it but I’m curious what’s that all about is it a special guy thing I don't know about?

[Summeroflove]

If he makes you uncomfortable you can always tell him to stop as well. Only he knows the answer to this. Some people are just more touchy.

Just. If he does not want a hug. Don’t. Because you wouldn’t want someone touching you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable

[SnowedIn]

Fear of presuming? That that wouldn't be what you want. Or that he just wants sex or something. But he knew that he blew it and now it's awkward.

[Faith18letsgo]

Hugs are low key sexually exciting. If a girl I liked offered me a hug I’d be low key nervous too.

[Karenjjj]

So you’d get hard if u liked a girl and she asked to hug u

[Faith18letsgo]

I mean maybe but most girls are shorter then me so I’d just lean down and they wouldn’t feel it.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s afraid he’d get hard or not want to let go

[Karenjjj]

Girl I’m dead 😭😭😭I think the hard part too but I’m just so embarrassed

[Opinion Owner]

but it’s cute you have pheromone magic

[Karenjjj]

What’s that lol

[Opinion Owner]

You know how pheromones are chemicals that mammals release into the environment that affect the physiology of others of their species? So if he likes you so much that a hug scares him, then i’m being silly saying your pheromones must be magical 🧙‍♀️

[Karenjjj]

That’s so cute 🥰 lol thank u for ur response

[Opinion Owner]

it’s true ! keep me posted

[Karenjjj]

He just messaged saying he didn’t hear me ask him for a hug wtf

[Opinion Owner]

… well that was a plot twist

[Karenjjj]

Foreal lmao

[Opinion Owner]

he must still be hung up and embarrassed about it because you definitely heard him say “maybe i’ll give you a hug next week”, so he’s lying

[Karenjjj]

I kno I feel bad 😞 I just didn’t kno why he didn’t wanna hug me since he’s been very touchy even grabbing my waist and lower back at times he probably didn’t wanna get hard 😭🤦‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

and if he’s this concerned about self control from a hug, imagine ….

[Karenjjj]

😭🥵😂😂

[Karenjjj]

You’re so cool tbh thank you for your time and response

[Opinion Owner]

you brought me smiles too so right back at you ✌️anytime

[Karenjjj]

💕❤️🌹

[Noahzaid]

He got nervous

[Karenjjj]

Why tho he literally can’t keep his hands off me at work all day like he keeps touching me and last few days he started this thing where he constantly touches my waist or grabs my waist and touches my lower back what’s that about u think

[Noahzaid]

I think he’s used to approaching you not the other way around.
We aren’t used to being wanted. Lol

[Karenjjj]

I’m dead 😭😂that’s messed up shouldn’t be like that

[SpaceGalaxy]

he is an ass-man and rather hug your ass

[Karenjjj]

Nice

[Anonymous]

He must a real dumb ass.🤣

[Karenjjj]

Like fr what’s wrong with him why would he do that I feel so embarrassed

[Opinion Owner]

It’s his loss.

[Karenjjj]

😭❤️

[XXblack88]

Maybe he's not a person who likes to hug.

[Karenjjj]

That’s true

[EaterPeter]

We guys are silly

[Karenjjj]

Thank you for your honesty lol but why do u think he did that made me feel hella stupid

[EaterPeter]

We are just cuckoo at times or most of the times

[EaterPeter]

He probably could not afford to give you hug there. He may get a boner or something else definetly silly. May be too smart, smug.

[Karenjjj]

Lmao 😂 definitely the boner part but he messaged just now saying he didn’t even hear me ask for a hug like wtf

[Karenjjj]

And not only that he’s put his hands on my waist and lower back randomly a few times now for the past few days for some reason I really don’t mind I’m just curious why

[EaterPeter]

I told you we are deff and mute too sometimes. There is this woman I loke at gym I saw her last time she said something and I was so preoccupied and in rush. I wish I have took a pause and spoke with her.

[EaterPeter]

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[EaterPeter]

last time when I was at gym

[Anonymous]

Is this something at work?