I started talking with a guy from bumble. soon after that we met up, hit of, and wanted to see the other person again. sadly, due to some things that happen in my personal life, i really didn't feel like hanging out at a dating site, so i asked this guy if i could add him on sc so we could keep contact. No problem! we added eachother, we hung out once more after this and i told him about my situation. he understood. He dont live in my hometown, but in a town a few hours away (he was in my town due to finishing his studies to become a nurse.) and was going to go home now for Christmas. i asked him if we could see eachother once more before he left (he was leaving Wednesday, i asked Tuesday if we could meet.) he said sure and asked if we could hang out at my place. i told him that i prefered not to, due to me not having cleaned or done the dishes for days due to the news i had recived. he told me that he didn't care about my place looking like a mess and that he really just wanted to see me again before he left. realising that this guys was really intrested in me and that i shouldn't let the cleaning come in the way. so i said fine, and told him to come over right away, but after he had read that message, he told me that he was going to shower, walk the dog, and clean the place where he had stayed before he left Wednesday. and I've heard nothing from him. i texted him 3 times Tuesday afternoon after he wrote the text. first message was where i asked if he wanted to eat lunch after he had cleaned, (didn't read.) a few hours later if he wanted to eat dinner at my place (he didn't read that) and lastly that i was going to go for a walk and that he could join me if he wanted to. (didn't read) sent him one last message Wednesday when i noticed on sc that he had left town, i didn't know that he had left, and i wished him a merry Christmas. (didn't read) So i deleted him from everything. him acting the way he was made me feel sick.
Did I do the wrong thing to cut all contact with him?
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im just going to give a quick update here and tell you guys that we did infact not have sex. we went for a walk. we decided to meet up in public, in a towns center, and went for a walk. we never went home to one another and did anything else.
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You’re meeting a stranger on the internet, what did you expect? Sis get a hold of your life. These apps are trash, only for trashy people. Clean yourself up. Learn some manners and get married. Don’t do this gross meetup. Go to the doctors and get a std panel done. Seriously icky stuff. I wish you the best on your journey!
haha we didn't have sex, we went for a walk.
That’s a relief but you were still on that trashy cesspool of an app. You get that, right? People aren’t thinking of long term futures on these platforms. Rather they’re looking at how they can use strangers. Respect yourself. Change your company. Don’t end up as a statistic for randoms
<3 all peace and love. peace and love.
No, you did the right thing because it sounds like he just interested in meeting up with you.
i felt so bad for not being able to comform to him at first, but now the more i talk with people about this situation i realise something is wrong with this guy. he kept talking about how bored he was in town, and maybe i was just some distraction.
He should feel just as bad in my opinion, if not more so.
im sure he hasn't even noticed i removed him from the social medias that we had added eachother on. but thank you so much for your words! i have there will be some self relasation from this guy. But i highly doubt so.
You're very welcome and Merry Christmas.