So I know this guy who I see from time to time because he is in the same friend circle as my boyfriend, and I don't particularly like this guy. He's incredibly immature, and I have a feeling he finds me a little too uptight. For some reason he's made it a thing to call me fat or obese as a joke (I'm actually underweight), but I don't find it funny and I don't react as if I do. I had an eating disorder for over 10 years, and it never really goes away, it's just sort of dormant right now, but I know it can come back. He of course doesn't know this, but he certainly should be able to tell that I don't find it funny, since I have not once laughed.
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He also often calls my boyfriend "skinny", and my boyfriend isn't bothered by it, because he is pretty thin, but I've always been afraid of being "bigger" than him, which again I'm not (at least I don't think so, I can't tell because of body dysmorphia though), but this guy saying that just feels like another jab at me.
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"Enough with your passive-aggressive "BS" . If you have something directly to say to me, say like a man... you little boy." Then, I would speak to my "spouse" about defending you under the, "wanted to let you know" your idiot friend and I had confrontation.
STOP there and keep the emotional expressions under wrap. Let him lead with questions without guidance your direction from you, You, display soft eye and thankfulness for asking Vibe.
Good luck with that guy...
They're not exactly friends, but sure, I'll try😅
I am not being nasty as someone who does that should be hearing that after boyfriend puts him on one knee. There's no need for you to carry the prick's garbage into the New Year !!
Such a loser he is🤦♀️