My boyfriend is always leaving his shoes at the bottom side of the bed on his side of the bed in order for me to get out of bed I have to climb over him then trip over his shoes, can't get my footing to walk, I twisted my ankle once, so I get mad and ask him why he always leaves them there where I have to trip over them. The bed is too big for the room it only fits 1 way and he knows that we have discussed this and tried it different ways and it is not possible to move it any other way do it is against 3 walls the only side open is his. thats the way he insists I sleep on the inside So I want to know why I am a bitch when I get mad. I have explained this s hundred times and he continues to do it anyway am I being unreasonable and am I being a bitch? I only complain when I trip otherwise I don't say anything help this is driving me crazy!
Guys, Men calling there wife or girlfriend a bitch. Or say all you ever do is bitch?
What Guys Said
I don't know yoi but: 1 maybe he holds you for a bitch independently, and it only emerges when you get mad. 2 girls who scream to have reason are often considered bitches. 3 we dont know whether he says "don't be a bitch" (see point 2) or "you are a bitch" (see point 1). 4 it's pretty typical for guys to call bitch their girlfriend, so maybe it's just a way of saying.
Can you move them where you want them before you go to bed?
Tried he won't put the anywhere else. He did after I got hurt for a few day, but then back to the same ole thing.
Slide under edge at least?
Not really I get in bed first and he gets mad because he has to move Everytime I have to get up for something, like the bathroom, something to drink he gets mad but while I'm up I can do or get things for him as well.
There is no edge it has storage under it. It's a tiny house. But there is a spot less then 2 feet if he would toss them there that's what we set up for his shoes to go out of the way
Ornery 🤷🏻♂️
I mean you're female so he's not wrong
What is that supposed to mean? That I am supposed to keep getting hurt because can't take any responsibility for his own stuff that's wrong my dad took care of all his own stuff