Does he have anger issues or a big ego?

[Anonymous]

I do not get what's going on with my boyfriend. Yesterday was great and we would hang out and have no issues. He would almost be in tears saying that we should do better this year and expand our finances. Today, he woke up to go to work and had plans to help out his friend. It got very bad with the snow where he had to come home. He was angry how he didn't want to be at home he wanted to work and make money. He came home saying he would help me. He came home and was upset that he didn't want to stay at home and play video games. I had issues with my online scheduled classes and my laptop didn't have the right software. I got frustrated with it and he came in the room saying he knew nothing of it. That I should have waited for his help if I didn't know the proper laptop. To be clear he was at home all day and didn't want to leave so I did my own shopping for school at the last minute. He wanted to wait a week. That escalated to when I came to the living room after being done with the laptop he angrily asked if he should be playing video games or if he should entertain me because he didn't want me throwing a fit. I never threw a fit. To be honest he is playing video games in the morning and at night. He wanted me to play my Nintendo Switch so we would both be occupied by electronics. Then he wanted to go to bigy to pick up stuff but never told me when we should leave. His game ended up malfunctioning and covered his head with his hoodie and then went to bed to take a nap. Sternly told me he waited for me and it's just getting later in the day. I honestly thought he was mad his game wasn't working. What is with him being emotionally available when we hang out together and then him being frustrated and taking it out on me all the time? What should I do to make him stop? He seems to manipulate every situation where it makes it look like I'm always wrong.

[Guy13]

He has both.