What does this man want?

[Anonymous]

We used to be friends. We’ve both got Asperger’s Syndrome. He chased me really hard for a year and terrified me but seemed not to mean me harm. Then this year, I closed Facebook because he wouldn’t leave me alone and had to change my phone Apple ID password. I turned the tracking system off on my iPhone. He stopped showing up everywhere I was and trying to talk to me. Then I got onto online dating sites and he joined them trying to find me and I ended up mistaking him for other men which he had pretended to be to get close to me for whatever reason, talking about wanting sex and wanting relationships but not knowing if he’s ready. He told me that he knows I was a nurse’s aide and that I am bisexual, which no one else told him. What does he want from me?

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Also, this man watches lots of old movies like James Bond, where women are objectified and dominated sexually and in every other way.

[Guy13]

Ask him what he wants or seek a professional counselor with expertise in your area and see what they suggest to you.

[Asker]

He told me he wants sex or else a relationship, but mostly sex. The counsellor said either revenge motivated or romantically motivated. My aunt said control motivated. Mutual friends said romance motivated/friendship motivated or sex motivated. It was scary but it was also confusing. Now I know it wasn’t revenge motivated. It was sex motivated. I get confused by strange behaviour. Weird things happen to me. I got hit on by a mostly lesbian woman who wouldn’t accept that I’m not gay around the same time as this guy chased me. She tried to sit in my lap and said the best relationships come from friendships, before all this when I asked for friendship. I also left my job around the same time.