He's a grown man! He showed all signs of having a crush but he never initiates conversation with me. Just about never. He will sometimes say hi, but nothing substantial, he expects me to continue the conversation from then on. Then, he will also talk to the people next to me but not me. It's like he hopes I will join that conversation but gets really dejected when I don't participate. What kind of game is this? What is he thinking? When I need to ask him something, he's suddenly all available and happy to help.
If this is a coworker then he may not feel comfortable taking that step to progress things with you. Even if your workplace allows interoffice romance, what may come with it isn’t made for everyone. On top of this, who knows what he’s got going on in his personal life. Keep in mind that timing is everything, and just because one person feels like they’re in a place to prioritize a relationship doesn’t meant the other party is.
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Did you show him it was okay to approach you? A smile perhaps?
That is probably not a true like. It sounds like there is another priority and you may be one of many secondary options.
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