So, I know he's (20M) attracted to me (24F). He has not said it, but everything says so - daily texts, he opens up, is all over my social media, loves and likes photos, he let me meet his friends, invites me to events and now to a little gathering. He is playful and flirty sometimes in text, but not too obvious. He mostly tries to impress me (I make him believe I'm impressed :D he's cute for that). BUT he avoids eye contact, whenever we talk, also acts VERY loud, expressive and like a toddler the way he peacocks whenever we meet with his friends. When we stay one on one, he's shy , EXTREMELY shy. I'm not looking for a serious relationship now, but I really like him physically and since I know he's attracted, and not that experienced, I want to help him to open up to get physical. I could have taught stuff to him, I'm very positive around him, but he talks so awkwardly when we stay alone, I don't know what to do :D he's blablabing, like an exited toddler, in a childish way. So don't know how to even initiate. When he talks to me he bites and licks his lips all the time, I know what it means, but he's sooo shy :D
I know he's attracted to me, but why does he avoids eye contact and acts like a loud toddler?
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He’s fresh out of his teenage years so to me it makes sense for him to be immature lol. I think you need someone either your age or older. Already women mature faster mentally than guys by a couple years so you’re already older in that respect, you just need someone more on your level. At 24 I refused to date men under 26 and regretted every time I gave someone so much younger a chance. Disappointed each time.
He is still a child. The social media and texting thing is just embarrassing. Find yourself someone more mature.
I think your assessment might be off.