Hello all, so there's this guy at my office (I'm new) he's nice and out going
First day he introduced himself and offered some snacks. He was pretty normal than eye contact and everything lol.
Next day I said Good Morning and he ignored me.
Since then I always see him "glancing" at me when passing by he thinks I don't see him and when I turn to look back at he nearly breaks his neck trying to turn away. This is an everyday occurrence.
The other day HE initiated a conversation starting with a compliment the whole time he avoided eye contact even when I was speaking (not even a glance it was weird and low key rude 😂)
It was about something on my computer but he was sitting there behind me talking with his buddies for a good 20 mins and mid convo he starts talking about the thing on my computer so I'm like how long have you been looking at my computer.
I'm pretty quiet and keep to myself I usually ignore his presence which involves not looking in his direction not avoiding his path (so I'm not scurrying around and looking weird, basically acting like nothing weird is going on). Unless he initiates it because I am not rude and even when he does I keep it pretty short.
What do you guys think about this situation?
Maybe he'd like to be friends but is kind of awkward? (Doesn't make sense to me because he's so outgoing)
Maybe I'm giving off some weird vibes which makes him act weird.
P. S. His friends sit by me they barely talk to me I don't know if that sheds more light on the situation
Thanks in advance !
I am black specifically Jamerican (Jamaican/American ) haha. My family is from Jamaica but I born and grew up in the U. S. .
I don’t have any Asian lineage, well at least none that I know of. Although when my mother brought me home from the hospital a lot of people asked her where did she get this Chinese baby from because to them I looked Asian.
What gave off the impression that I’m Asian?
What do you look like Steve?
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