Ok so i finally told the guy i like u ( a guy in my highschool that has been looking at me and always being around me but when i tried talking the couldnt keep up convo) i got tried of all the stalking thing from his side and smiling and staring thingy so i texted him saying i will talk to u in morning so he was there in library where i always go I don't know if he was hiding himself from me or doing according to the planning so he was sitting i came up and nudged him and he smiled i said to come i went outside and he came and we both were first laughing and giggling my friend told he ahd biggest smile and then i told him i like him and he was smiling and he said wht should i say next which kinda turned me off ( LIKE U LOOK AT ME ALL TIME) he wasn't look towards my face and when he did it was intense i was like he ain't keeping up so i said are u a player coz i like serious relations he said no no im really innocent (which he actually is) so then he said wht u want me to do now ( LIKE U AR EMEN DO SOEMTHING NOW) SO I said i dont want relation atm and he said yeah each studies are going on we have exams so i also dont like relationship ( I don't know IF HE SAID IT SOLEY COZ I SAID IT) and then it was silence and staring ( really casual and jolly) and then he said can i go now and i said yeah ( I don't know if he stares smiles and then when i confess he can't look in my direction and smile like hell and still dont know wht to say next) please interpret coz it seems impossible that he dont like me after all these months of him admiring me from distance
He was smiling all the time and couldn't keep eye contact neither he know wht to say next when I confessed to him?
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You're drawn to a shy, introverted, inexperienced guy. There's nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't expect him to be experienced and know what to say or do. He's going to be awkward until he familiarizes himself with what a relationship is all about and where he fits into that picture. If you tend to be impatient and impulsive, then pass on this opportunity, as you don't need to make this transition traumatic for him. If you can be patient, have conversations about what a relationship means and what it looks like. Show more interest in seeing things through his eyes rather than talk at him and tell him what he should or shouldn't believe. Let him know everyone defines this differently, so there is no one right answer. Just get to know each other, how you see things and what each of you finds meaningful in life.
But what do you want from him? You said you dont want a relationship now so im also confused what were your intentions. Guys can be attracted but not ready fro something real and get scared for things getting real and feel preassure. You shouldve asked him do you like me too? (Do you want to date/go on a date? if that is something you want)
He might have thought it was obvius he likes you, and been caught of guard with you confession. If he is not ready for anything real he can reject you even if he likes you.
Point is, ask him what I said.
He is clearly shy and you told uhom u lole him but don't want a relationship so what is it u want lol
ofc i wanted relation but he said wht should i say when i said him i love u so it was making me mad how he dont even know wht to say when i confessed and did the hard part
So because u was angry that a guy was shy u lied and now your here complaining?