Do you think Incels ever asked a girl out?

[OddBeMe]

Seriously, not making fun. These guys intrigue me and I study their forums and videos. They keep talking about “rejection”. But you need to ask first to get rejected. And that requires a lot of courage. Something I really don’t see in them.

Because I was similar back then. I was shy and labeled the weird one. And I don’t think they’ve ever talked to girls. It’s just rage and encouragement online.

Yeah they prob talked to girls. And got rejected.

Nah. They’ve never even tried.

Idk…

[Stoner710]

Of course they ask girls out, Most incels are ugly theee the anime geeks or the goth kids from high school, unfortunately the goth girls tend to be lesbians so the “incels” try to ask someone out outside there social group goths and nerds tend to be at the bottom rung on the social hierarchy so they have a hard time getting girls until they become rich in there 30s and 40s and they the 20 year old girls fall in love with them because there done dealing with the Jocks who take advantage of them. If Danels Radcliffe wasn’t Harry Potter and just a normal guy he would fall into the category of what you call incels.

[slatyb]

If that did, it was ten seconds after that meet her. They can't get dates because they don't know any women. They imagine that men get dates by asking attractive strangers for dates.

[Wade12345]

lol. you're retarded.

dating in the work place is usually forbidden, and church women are the worst hypocrites on Earth. I don't drink alcohol or do drugs, so i don't go to bars or clubs to hang out with the losers who live on drugs and alcohol.

going to the library or book store does not work.

I've been rejected by every woman i've ever tried to talk to with one exception, and I ruined the date simply because it was the first time I'd ever been on a date and didn't have any experience dating. I was 24 years old at the time. i haven't managed to get a single woman to as much as talk to me or saying anything other than just "no way" in person ever since then, and the ones on online dating apps are even worse, they don't reply at all, not even to say "no".

[Wade12345]

I don'y know any women because women refuse to even allow me to introduce myself to them when i try to talk to them.

[slatyb]

That's because you keep hitting on strangers. Find some group activity what you will have a chance to meet people. Be nce. Contribute. Learn people's names. Don't hit on anyone for the first three months.

[OddBeMe]

If I may, I feel like I’d be just as fcked if I didn’t meet the right girl 15 years ago. So I empathize. And being highly introverted and a business guy I got meet people daily. The worst is stepping into a convo and taking center stage as I interrupt everyone.

But now years later it’s easy because of experience. I can only advise talking to as many women, and befriending as many women as humanly possible. Even if they’re married. Chicks love setting up singles.

And mathematically, there’s a ratio out there for everyone. For every 20 girls you meet say, 1 will at least talk to you.

[goaded]

Girls can reject someone with a look, it doesn't necessarily get as far as talking. But that's the incel's fault for approaching someone who's obviously not interested. They should get to know who can stand their company first and approach them.

[OddBeMe]

True, maybe…. or she’s just as shy and conveying the wrong feelings as these incels. So it could be massive miscommunication nonverbally.

[goaded]

I hope most people can distinguish between a look away and a look of disgust.

[OddBeMe]

I don’t know. I’m far…far from a looker and I’ve only gotten polite letdowns. These “looks of disgust” from Stacy’s might not be real…

[kramchancel]

im not an incel by any measures but you ever asked a girl out and they give you that disgusted look / "shit im unsafe right now" look? Yeah that stays in one's psyche

[OddBeMe]

Honestly no. And I’m NOT a looker. I also don’t roll out of bed smelling like weed in my sweats. But the girl smiles, says no sorry and I smile back. The end.

[Anonymous]

Probably. That's why they are so hurt. They cannot process rejection. An older guy taught me how to process it. I have no trouble being rejected.

[OddBeMe]

True, it’s easier to get mad than try to remedy the situation.

[CaptainSmartass]

I think they must have done. You don't get THAT bad from never hang asked a girl out.

Simples...

[OddBeMe]

You don’t think they could be 40 yr old virgin types who don’t know how to talk to chicks?

[msc545]

I think that is how they were exposed to a lot of rejection which CAUSED them to become incels.

[OddBeMe]

Actual rejection? Or perceived rejection?

[msc545]

Actual unmistakable rejection like most women dish out casually.

Why would actual vs. perceived make a difference except that perceived would make it possible to blame the guy?

Is it THAT hard to hold women responsible for their shitty behavior?

[OddBeMe]

Hold them responsible for your feelings?

[msc545]

No. Hold them responsible for their own behavior. In the same way men are always held responsible for their behavior...

[OddBeMe]

Are you saying women should be forced to be nice to you incels?

[msc545]

I am not an incel.

[OddBeMe]

Ok, my bad you’re just very passionate on this, which is cool. This is the basis of their argument I think. Incels expect way too much from women and don’t hold themselves to any of the high standards they have.

I would bet dollars to pesos that most if not all “incels”, who post online at least about Stacys, have never spoken to one romantically.

[msc545]

I don't know what incels expect. How do you know?

I would bet that all of them have talked to a few Stacys and been trashed by them as a result.

[OddBeMe]

Maybe, obviously speaking with a broad brush. But I read their posts on 4chan and such, and girls don’t trash guys that easily. This ain’t Revenge of the Nerds.

Some drunk chicks might blow them off in a club and be rude, but these guys extrapolate that to Godzilla size bitches who should be assaulted.

[msc545]

Insult in in the ears of the beholder.

[msc545]

Is in. Fucking no edit.

[OddBeMe]

Exactly. Incels might…just might…be 10x more sensitive. And if a girl looks like he’s frowning at them when really they’re scratching their asshole, they cry, go online and talk about killing women.

[Leopard23]

Absolutely I do.

[OddBeMe]

Absolute? Every one has the cojones to talk to chicks, but for some odd reason they’re all lizard men?

[Nikki1989]

Doesn't seem like it.