I have this guy friend for a decade and suddenly he is going cold, we have been friends for almost a decade?

[Anonymous]

He use to text and call all the time and now he says he is super busy which I have seen him be busy but he barely calls or checks up on me. Is this normal? (P. s iam in a serious relationship as well) So I don't know if he is actually busy or he is avoiding me purposely as he caught feelings. What do you think?

[spartan55]

He realized he isn't getting any from you, so he lost interest.

[spartan55]

He got sick of being your alternate boyfriend.

[Asker]

Who hurt you lol

[spartan55]

Uh... no one? Wth are you talking about?

[BarryLiverstone]

Like you said he’s busy. Have you planned to meet up with him soon and hang out?

[Asker]

No iam leaving him alone as he keeps telling me he is busy and unless I really need to him then his there

[Tstrbrainer]

A decade and no sex? He's definitely a slowwwwww learner

[Asker]

I like how men like you think only thing a girl can offer as friend is sex. This is why you must be lonely.

[spartan55]

@asker
Who said we're lonely? That's shit you made up.

[Asker]

@spartan55 definitely giving lonely vibes.

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't really think that a female friend can only offer sex, it's just that that's what I usually want from women.

[spartan55]

@asker
Na, don't think so.

[In_Trance]

maybe he's railing someone else