If most guys respect "ALPHA" behavior then why do most guys turn me into an outcast after I start bragging?

[Anonymous]

I'm a very low key, timid,& respectful type

I don't bother, flirt, or pester anybody

But other than that I have done sports when I was younger (track, powerlifting, some tennis)

Many guys never expected me to be someone who lifts more than I'm supposedly capable of or how lean I can be with some muscle tone here & there

So I returned the favor

I started bragging & acting all hard to get them irritated & eventually every dude who wanted to test eventually just at left me alone

But I only did it as a warning

[dynamicyandere]

Alphas don’t need to brag.


They show, they don’t tell.


Their actions speak for them.


And real alphas naturally attract supporters and they command respect.


That’s because real alphas are leaders, true leaders.


And true leaders don’t brag about themselves.


True leaders are all about uplifting and helping other people, leading people to a better outcome and future.


Alpha can come in many forms.


Many people think of Tyler Durden (from Fight Club) as an example of an alpha.


But Jesus Christ was an alpha too.


They were both leaders of their own packs.


They inspired loyalty, they had a vision, they were able to rally people together for a common goal.


And neither of them bragged about themselves.


Food for thought.

[dynamicyandere]

P. S.

I also agree that it’s best to stop using the term “alpha” as it’s mostly used among insecure men that are obsessed with being an “alpha”.

Focus on becoming the best version of yourself instead.

Everything else will fall into place.

[Guy13]

Alpha do not brag and no one likes a bragger.

[melanieeeB]

Don't be an "alpha male"!
The only people saying that being "alpha" is good, are other unstable insecure "alpha" men.
Everyone else laughs about the "alphaness"

[Asker]

What's your take on my "style"

Lone Wolf/Rogue/Renegade

I do what I want/when I want/how I want

I avoids interactions with both genders & especially the opposite sex

Ii don't smile, giggle, laugh, or show any enthusiasm in my facial expressions

I always dress in dark colors

By default I've always been like this

Even as young as 8 year old from what I can remember

[Blackcupcake]

don’t use the word alpha again… that’s cringe