This guy and I aren’t dating we’re just friends, but he’s possessive. I guess you can say it’s a situationship, he doesn’t want me to talk to other guys but goes over here and hangs out with a female late at night ( obviously doing things cause it shows that he’s easy ) he gives off a f boy vibe, doesn’t want anything serious just to have fun. I rejected him a lot of times cause I know my worth. He pisses me off but at the same time I have a kind heart and I see him as a friend, I get jealous when he brings up him talking or hanging out with someone but that’s how I am, we both have a good bond. I’m an over thinker so sometimes I think to myself that I should just ghost him instead of giving him an attitude cause I know he wouldn’t care even though he tells me to let him know if something is bothering me. Obviously he just wants me around without the commitment and it’s getting annoying he’s being toxic that if I talk to guys he’s gonna “stop” talking to me it’s stupid and immature. I just want to yell at him and tell him how an immature little boy he is. It’s lowkey gonna suck though cause he’s the only person I talk to.
Ghosting is the gangrene of the youth that does not know how to handle a miscommunication problem.
It is so much easier just to cut all electronic communication than to speak out face to face. That would be the only and most dignified way to express your feelings about him and his behavior.
There is no such thing as overthinking but only thorough situation analysis.
You find more negative aspects in him than positive ones. In that case, just cut the contact but have the decency to tell him in his face rather than to go coward and cut off electronic communication.
That would show that you have character and personality. In any case, you should distance yourself from him because there are too many aspects of this relationship that are not working.
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you keep vaugely implying what i suspect you dont want people to know, that you have had sex with or continue to sleep with him.
"situationship" being a big give away to it as well as you. admitting to getting upset/jealous of him seeing/being around/with other females, after admitting he is a fuck-boy.
this all, and a few more context clues, tells me you are friends with benefits but you wanted more commitment, even though it started out more the other way around with him asking you out.
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