It’s true that guys like quiet girls?

[Anonymous]

well i’m in a new school since then i’m very quiet not shy just doing my things yk and a lot of guys look at me and talk about my looks at the same time they don’t talk to me but I don't know i’m not desperate
be quiet is bad?

[Hulk_kitty]

Its bad to a certain way, if I want to get to know a girl, because it will be hard to have conversations with her.

But I don't want a girl, that is a chatterbox either. Its question of balance.

It really depends on what you mean by quiet.

Its not problem depending on the situation behind, on what is you want to achieve, to make friends or get a boyfriend. If you have already have friends, and don't about getting about boyfriend, then don't worry about it.

It quiet can also be a good thing, because you can't trust everyone.

[Hulk_kitty]

You have determine what is it you want to achieve in terms of your social life and love life. There is positive and negative to being a quiet and chatterbox.

[Asker]

i’m quiet in class and on my socials im very “low profile” i had i lot of problems in another school bc people were talking a lot shit about me and i was in trouble all the time but if u talk to me um gonna be very gentle and kind i think boy are trying to decipher me I don't know but i don’t like exposing myself too much mainly in high school and i don’t have time to deal with stupid people who don’t even know me

[Hulk_kitty]

fair enough, just focus on your studies, and don't worry about your other people, getting involved can cause you get bullied etc. Been quiet it will actually help you a lot, when you come to get a job, so much politics in workplaces.
Meet people outside of school, go social activities. like dancing etc.

[Asker]

also people say i have a bitch face but i don’t care lmao when i’m interested in somebody im gonna go ahead that’s it

[Hulk_kitty]

don't worry about the other student, just focus on your studies. That's more important, than what other students think of you. You will meet a nice guy, when you doing will in life anyway. Just focus on yourself, its the best investment you will make your life, not people.

[Asker]

thanks appreciate that

[Hulk_kitty]

Good for you. Most people are bitch faces, or backstabbers anyway fuck them

[Hulk_kitty]

no worries, sorry for bad English lol, terrible tonight.

[Hulk_kitty]

my cousin, who just became a doctor, did not have a social life at all or had no boyfriends, she focused on her studies to become a doctor, now move from Ireland to Australia for better life, and she loving life. 7 years of painful studying, and no social life. Its worth the sacrifice in the end.

[Asker]

i’m not looking for love actually i got cheated on 2 times lmao and i’m good by myself just focusing on the gym school studies and my ass getting bigger Lmao that’s it

[Hulk_kitty]

no worries good luck, all the best. Smart girl keep up on that path.

[warsevf]

I think there is no criteria like that, but it will draw attention, from my experience every just shut up when i finally talked to them because i needed something

[Greenbean27]

There isn't a problem with quietness. There is a problem an inability to communicate which is associated with quietness. If you can talk to people your fine.

[Shamalien]

No I like em louder

[Asker]

ok then