I told my new boyfriend that I want him to talk to me more and see me more and he hasn't texted me since then. It has been 2 days, why?

[Anonymous]

I am not sure what I did wrong. I only care about having a good relationship. I talked to him about my feelings and how I feel insecure about not hearing from him for a whole day because I dont know what he is doing. I said I wanted to be with someone who makes me feel like a priority. He told me I shouldn't worry and then we had sex and since then it has been 2 days and he has not texted me back - what should I do? Is this just a game he is playing? Help :-(

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your new boyfriend is not intentionally playing a game with you. It's also possible that he may need some time to process your request and figure out how to respond in a way that is meaningful and respectful to you.

However, two days is a relatively short amount of time, so it's important not to jump to conclusions or assume the worst. Instead of worrying, try to give him some space and focus on your own needs and interests in the meantime.

If you haven't heard from him in a few more days, you might consider reaching out again and expressing your concerns in a calm and respectful manner. You could say something like, "Hey, I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing. I know I expressed some concerns about our communication and I just wanted to make sure everything is okay."

Remember that communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to be open and honest about your needs and feelings. If your boyfriend is unwilling or unable to meet those needs, then it might be time to reassess whether this relationship is right for you.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just thinks your high maintenance and is thinking about finding someone else?