I’m starting to feel inferior to white women bc of a simple crush?

[Anonymous]

There was a guy who was flirty and nice. I did start to like him even tho I was a bit shy. During that time I actually found out he was dating a someone. A hot white girl. They were not exclusive but I noticed a change in him as time went on. He was kind of less flirty didn’t really look etc..

I just couldn’t help but feel a tad jealous. Seeing that they were having fun together, she met his parents etc..

Im just the girl he “flirted” with.. light fun etc or possibly sexual attraction I don't know but the white woman gets the genuine interest and connection. Black girls are just “fun” for men while they marry and love white women

Am I less

[razelove]

What does race have to do with it? From your description it's a one off, not that you're a stepping stone for white women over and over. The very mechanic of monogamous relationships is people flirt, see their options, and then get into a relationship with one person. Every person they were flirting with until getting in that relationship is rejected. Whether it's the men, women, and regardless of their race.

I feel zero guilt, or sympathy for women I reject. Just as I feel zero attachment to women I have been rejected by. Get over it, and don't fixate on the woman, you and him didn't click, find someone else. y'all got close, but didn't cross the finish line together. It happens.

[mommymommymommy]

I have a "friend", who i really no longer see, but, he and i know each other obviously. He's a "friend" of my dads. He's white, he married, had sex with, and had kids with, a black woman.

He's a trump supporter

I'm not

[Anonymous]

How about you drop that mindset number one. Men are men. I can guarantee you even if you were also a white girl the outcome would have been the same, or he would have left the other girl for YOU, meaning she is getting the treatment you are currently experiencing. If he was in a relationship and flirting with you he’s not trustworthy from the get go. Find a guy that wants you and only you because I guarantee he’d leave THAT girl for an even hotter white girl. Stop putting race into it.

[swettannie]

As a white woman, I deeply apologize that you have to feel like this, it is absolutely not deserved, black women are truly beautiful!

[Asker]

Thank you💖 I needed those positive words.

[swettannie]

You do not need to thanks me when you are the victim of a society that my race made oppressive toward you. I'm the one who need to apologize

[Asker]

Noo you don’t but I appreciate you for understanding my viewpoint 🙏✨

[swettannie]

I do. I am privilegiad to have a black woman as a best friend who teached me about this. If you ever need to talk, my dm is open

[Asker]

Thank you 🥺💖

[swettannie]

Always feel free, it will be a pleasure

[MackBoy]

All women are beautiful And it doesn't matter whether she is black or white. there are so black woman who are very beautiful and loved by men. being white is just a colour and it doesn't mean that you are less valuable or inferior. be patient and you will get the right man to love you and don't get jealous.

[Summeroflove]

You’re not inferior because the color of your skin. Maybe he just isn’t meant to be… maybe you’re just not his type.


No you’re not less. I’m sure as long as you’re a good woman someone’s out there for you

[Avicenna]

You're reading too much into that situation. Truth is desirable black women who are open to dating outside their race have lots of options.

[Asker]

He was Hispanic actually

[Avicenna]

That doesn't change my answer one bit

[Asker]

True but I still can’t help not feeling good enough. O well it’s life

[Avicenna]

You shouldn't. Not every guy is going to want to date any given woman.

[BoopBoopBeep]

This mentality is what makes you less attractive, not being black.

[Anonymous]

Shut up, make yourself attractive and stop using race as a freaking excuse. Yes, and I'm black as well.

[Asker]

What?

Here’s a cookie and a clap bc you’re black as well. 🍪👏 tf

[Anonymous]

Is he black as well? I mean I have my ideas as to why but they may not be what you want to hear.

[Asker]

No he’s not black

[dudeinohio]

My ex wife is black. It most certainly happens.