Girls, does any of you feel that your boyfriend acts like a baby? In most of our discussions he gets offended and pissing me of like a child...
Most men are like that, yeah.
It's a big reason I don't date cishet men anymore.
Learned helplessness, entitlement, inability to take personal responsibility, fear of "doing what needs to be done" - all of these are common in most men (and a fair number of women, tbf).
It won't get better until he decides he wants to be an adult.
Which it sounds like he doesn't want, because he whines like a child.
My suggestion, give him the ultimatum that he learn to have engaged discussion and learn to do something other than whine, or he loses you.
You don't deserve to be saddled with a whiny manchild who can't even handle basic discussions.
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So you need to ask his mom if that's what he used to do when he used to get in trouble since you know what he does be a little bit smarter about it and say hey hey wait a minute don't pull your acting like a baby routine that's so stupid you're an adult if you're going to act that way go to your room lol
Or say if you're going to act like that there's no need for me to even talk to you I'm trying to talk to you as an adult you want to lower everything down to a 5-year-old and that makes no sense to me we're both mature people that's both acts like it when you're having a discussion are you trying to fix something that's what you're trying to do you're not trying to say that somebody's right or wrong and somebody have a temper tantrum
Sounds like two babies to me. An adult can handle a baby. So you able to handle him makes me wonder how he became your boyfriend in the first place.
no, i am not with a baby i am with a man lol. if anything *I* act like the baby. maybe just talk to him about it. he probably doesn't know it's bothering you or he may even be unaware of his behavior. guys can be dumb.
overall, you guys probably aren't compatible if he's acting like that when you have discussions.
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I think men struggle with emotional sides to them. They either under or overdo it. My boyfriend reads into conversations wrong, he feels like im always attacking him when im just talking about anything. Its strange but then he under does it where he has no emotions and thats annoying too lol
Tell him that if he continues to act like a child, he's going to be spanked like one, and if his behavior doesn't improve, spank him. Hard.
Most men are huge babies. But you have to decide if his behavior is something you are willing to put up with or not.
sounds like my little brother , he gets offended by literally anything I say , I hope he grows out of it bc it's annoying
You deal with it by ending the relationship and dating an adult.
Could you elaborate with what he is actually doing to you? 'Pissing you off' is pretty vague.
No, I don't feel that way. If I did, I would have dumped him immediately.
With logic and notes. When you are holding him accountable to something he agreed to previously be calm and either show him evidence or remind him it was already settled.
Yeah thatβs the worst. Especially if heβs fully grown lol.
If you can't carry on a normal conversation in a relationship, I don't see a future.
Why u even got together to begin with? And what stuff does he do?
This whole generation is nothing more than a bunch of spoiled brats, with a few exceptions.
When I grow up I'm going to stop flipping people off in my profile picture.
So you think he's a huge baby because he annoys you?
He must have gone to a woke college teaching boys to have tantrums to get what they want
Seeing as how you are so masculine, what do you expect?
That can be any generation... I feel like this with my own father who is in his 70s...
It's called a lack of maturity.
Get him some diapers and a bottle!
Get him some Huggies.
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