Does he like me or not and what is on his mind?

[Anonymous]

Here's that guy who is with me in college, i once asked him about something in some subject and he helped me , since then he was seeing my status on whatsapp and commenting a lot, he is so nice and all , but for some personal reasons I asked him nicely that we should stop talking and he agreed with respect, but he still sends me pdfs and very helpful stuff for exams even if i didn't ask for , i once asked him why he is helping me is it because he cares/ likes me , and he was typing ( for four minutes) that he just send it because i have the same subject ( actually he said nonsense reply) then i said ok because i felt it was awkward, after that he sends me helpful things again, I'm confused! Sorry for writing so long

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11 mo

Ok grandba , you are 51 and I'm not gonna blame you that you don't understand what you yourself are writing , and i wanna give you an advice as you don't know about new psychology, it's something called gaslighting , so be aware of bad people. 😊🥴The blocking thing , it's again out of your business , so don't be mad 😊🥴

[Gent207-2]

He likes you

More importantly why did you turn him away?

[Asker]

It's for cultural and religious reasons, but i do find him very nice but i can't tell him if he doesn't makes the first move

[Asker]

He himself know the cultural stuff.

[Gent207-2]

Well this is the blind-leading-the-blind
But oh well good luck

[Anonymous]

Talk to him, but play it cool till you know what is on his mind.

[spartan55]

What are you confused about?

[Asker]

Does he likes her or not

[spartan55]

You mean you?

[spartan55]

Probably not since you told him to bug off

[Asker]

Yes it is

[Asker]

But why he still helps me?

[spartan55]

He wants to help?

[spartan55]

Why does it matter since you told him not to contact you?

[Asker]

I think you hate me or smth coz i what i did , but i did so because of cultural and religious reasons and he totally understand it , I'm confused because the situation doesn't need games if he is serious he should say something clear like engagement, but if not why sending me things even i didn't ask for , just to play around? I don't understand him

[spartan55]

You think I hate you because of what you did? I don't know what you are talking about, at all. I'm not liking or hating anyone, I'm trying to give advice.

[spartan55]

Okay, he is not playing any games. You told him to go away, and now you say 'if he is serious he should say something clear'. So, who is playing games? You can't have it both ways.

[Asker]

Bro you literally don't understand a word, i said there are some cultural manners we follow, boys and girls aren't allowed to be friends, so we can't chat and talk about other things rather than study, if a guy likes a certain girl he should propose to her or else to stay away , i just told him not to chat as if we are friends , the point is he still sends me helpful things even i didn't ask for , and i thought he would stay away or smth , why are saying ( who's playing games?) Are you mad or something? Don't take things personal because you are a guy too.🙄

[spartan55]

First I hate you, then I'm mad 😂... no bro. You can't read a room at all. If you told him not to contact you then why don't you just block him? Since he has to do what you say, right?

[Asker]

I think you are not giving any advice or answer to my original question, the details is out of of your business.

[spartan55]

Where did I ask for any other details? That's now the third time you've made something up that I didn't say.
I'm sure it's some complicated dark secret why you won't block him...😂😂🙄

[Asker]

Ok grandba, I'm not gonna blame you that you don't understand what you yourself are writing, you are 51 and i wanna tell you an advice, there's something called gaslig. hting and you should be aware of bad people using it 😊🥴, and again the blocking thing or any other questions about anything that isn't involved in the original question is out of your business 😊🥴 stay safe 😊

[spartan55]

So, who is gaslighting who? Do you even know what that word means? Because it doesn't fit in anywhere in our thread. Keep throwing those buzzwords out there so you sound smart 😂😂 your insult game is pathetic

[spartan55]

Keep doing things your way, it seems to be working out well for you.

[Asker]

Insult? I didn't insult anyone!! 😯 Game? What are you talking about grandba?😂😂 I think you some rest.
by the way i ain't gonna reply again because you waste my time, go watch old tv showes old patheti. c man 🥺
Bye.😉

[spartan55]

Are you still talking? Go clean your room.

[In_Trance]

wants to smash

[Asker]

What do you mean