My friend with benefit texted me he wants me to be his, does it mean something or am I overanalysing?

[Anonymous]

So i have this friends with benefits for like a year. In the middle of kind of sexting he told me ‘i want u to be mine so i can do whatever i want to u’ he never says something that might sound like he wants more, but lately he has been acting kind of jealous and possesive and now this.
Do you think it was something said as part of the sexting or that it actually meant something? I was afraid to ask and just kinda ignored it..

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds like he likes you

[Anonymous]

Have you two talked about a relationship before?

[Asker]

Yeah and it was never like a big no for him but he always said stop thinking we have fun together and it was comfortable for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it’s a good time to have a talk about what the next steps are. The whole dominance thing can be fun in the bedroom but what you don’t want is to basically be on hold until he’s ready for a relationship, not dating anyone and if you do it triggers him. It’s a classic case of him wanting to have his cake and eat it too, which to me is very selfish. Like if he won’t commit then he should be cool with you finding someone who will. That’s no way for you to live.

[Asker]

you're so right girl thank you for this

[Opinion Owner]

No worries!

[Anonymous]

He wants you to be his girl friend.