Why would he still stare at other women (takes his time when he stares, makes it obvious, eyes and mouth wide open) when he is in a good relationship?

[Anonymous]

Why would he make it obvious tho?

[Anonymous]

How do you know it’s a good relationship? Men look at other women no matter what. Unless he’s into men, chances are he will always find other women attractive. Women seem to think that once a man finds someone his brain automatically shuts off when it comes to checking out other women. Doesn’t work that way. Some of course are more obvious about it.

[Asker]

They seem very happy and share interests so I think it's a good relationship.

I also think like that haha. I thought it would work that way. At least for me tho.

Yeah some are very obvious about it. Unbelievable

[Opinion Owner]

You thought what? That a man’s mind shuts down as far as looking at other women?

[Asker]

Yeah I thought that! Especially when he is with the woman he loves and has a whole other type than the one he stares at very obvious

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly as a man I wish that did happen. It would make life so much easier. I’ve been w someone for 14 years, but fuck if I don’t look at other women. If I could turn that part of my brain off I would. But you can’t. I guess that would be like me asking you to stop being emotional. Women tend to think men are complicated but that’s only cause they tend to think as you do, that we think the same way as women. We don’t. So if we don’t think according to how you think then there’s something wrong w us according to most women.

[Asker]

Okay you got me there. I thought that men think like women from time to time but no hahah 🤣

Thank you for taking the time to explain it to me

[Opinion Owner]

Lol hell no. Would you want us to think like women? I mean women have a hard time as it is understanding each other being catty toward each other. Imagine is men thought the same as women. There’d be a lot more drama than there is now. I believe that the most domestic violence occurs in lesbian couples.

[Asker]

Hahahah you made my day 🤣🤣 you are totally right.

I don't know about that tho. I don't think it's gender related. I leave it at that and won't discuss that topic any further..

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you want to know how men think use more logic. Simple words. We don’t talk a lot. Men explain thing w facts. I mean really just look at the questions women post. It’s like a whole story. Every feeling is involved. It’s like ok me n Bob got in a fight, he did x, y, n z. Girls be like ok me n Shelly got in a fight. I was already upset. It was tat time of the month. I just broke up w my boyfriend. My mom made me mad earlier. I left my money at home now I can’t get breakfast lol what else do you want to know about men? Lol

[Asker]

I actually thought men also think like that and say things like that too but no 😶 It means I don't know a lot about men 😆

I make it more complicated for myself and think like how you describe it. Like; "but do I also have something on my shirt?", "Do I walk okay?"..

[Opinion Owner]

Yes exactly lol women think they know men but they don’t n they go to other women to ask for advice when they’re feeding them the wrong bs. We aren’t complicated.

[Asker]

Yeah I found that out too. Friends always gave me the wrong advice because when I talked to him he said he wasn't thinking like that at all.

But still it confuses me what men mean with their actions

[Asker]

Oops I accidentally did something to your question. What did you say?

[Opinion Owner]

What sort of actions are you talking about that are confusing to you?

[Asker]

Oh just all that staring.. that confuses me a lot. Then it's from head to toe, then like zoning out and with eyes and mouth wide open,.. I don't know if they have good intentions or it is a good thing haha

[Opinion Owner]

Well most likely it’s cause she’s cute, has a nice body. It’s sexual. Now whether they want something as in a real relationship or just sex that could go either way. This person you’re talking about he’s the married one staring at you?

[Asker]

No he isn't married, just in a relationship. No I talk about single men right now. Sorry for the confusion

[Asker]

Oh okay that's why! Now I get it

[Opinion Owner]

If a girl is cute w a nice body men are going to look. Some make it obvious, some don’t. A lot of men try to befriend the cute girls. Cause I’m our little warped minds we think maybe something will happen. Maybe I’ll save her from whatever and she’ll be so thankful she drops to her k eyes to thank me lol I really don’t think we’re as confusing as women think we are. I guess I can see why it would be confusing cause you’re thinking I’m supposed to think the same way you are.

[Asker]

You make it sound so easy to understand! Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

It is easy to understand just stop thinking like a female when it comes to understanding men. I really don't think we’re as hard to understand as women say we are. Women tens to think more w their feelings. I don't think we require as much attention or maintenance. We just need food, sex, a woman who appreciates us, someone who doesn't have masculine qualities.

[Asker]

It really seems so simple for men

[007kingifrit]

because he is faithful to you... yes you read that right. if he was trying to be sneaky about it you wouldn't want to trust him right? this way you know he is only looking, but he likes YOU

[Anonymous]

Just because he’s in a relationship does not make him a good spouse lol. Women pick scumbag Steve all the time and just hope to Jesus he will change.

[Asker]

Hahah that's true

[RyanK9b]

We are guys, testosterone driven. Its in our dna to look for women.
Its nothing to do with your not good enough or something like that