Is normal that a guy doesn’t want to date aftet one rejection?

[Anonymous]

My brother got rejected by a girl he really liked. She liked him too for a long time. They kissed few times and went out. But then she ended things. It happened like 10 months ago. Since then he doesn't want to hear about dating a word. He id handsome guy and he could have many girls if he wanted to. But he is became really bitter towards this all. He is like if she rejected me every other will too. All he does is hanging out with boys watching football and drinking.

[ohsheeT]

When a guy gets turned down he can either take it personally or he can smile and understand that it wasn't meant to happen and go on with life and thank God in that moment because it didn't happen there's a reason for it and he has to be able to get over that it's only embarrassing for a second it's only embarrassing until you allow it not to be then why would you allow it to be embarrassing she's a human just like everybody else she said no it's not a big deal there are other girls out there that will say yes he has to look at it in a positive way not a negative way

You can turn down is one of the most humble experiences you will ever receive in life it comes just as close as when you're having an argument with somebody about something that happened and you're wrong about it when you can look at that person in the eyes and honestly say you know what I apologize you're right I just wrong that's one of the same type of moments that are not negative they're 100% positive they are beautiful moments because they teach you something moments
Your brother needs to understand these are just Petty moments in time don't allow them to hold himself back from anything

[Anonymous]

Totally normal. Give him some space he needs time. If he meets the right girl and the girl wants to make the effort with him this can change.

I don't know why so many women think guys need to be forced out of this. Guys do not exist solely to make you women feel good about yourselves. Don't worry about it. He's fine single for a bit.

[inhua]

he's not obligated to date if he doesn't want to

besides, young men don't have it easy in dating, that only comes to them later on in life so he's right to wait his time

[boggboss]

Just sounds like he took it bad

[SnowedIn]

Yes normal.