What are these signs my guy friend is giving me?

[Anonymous]

So there’s this guy I like and he likes me. But we’re not official. We make a lot of eye contact and his eyes sparkle so much when we do. It’s like he’s looking way down into them instead of just at them almost. But the most recent thing is the other day. I’d been in play clothes. Dri-fit kind of shirt, athletic swimming kind of outfit. Anyway. I went to change clothes for church. And I did it out Americana for the Fourth. American nice shirt, jean skirt, red white and blue necklaces, etc. When I came around the door frame, his eyebrows went up for a second and his face kind of lit up. What was that reaction? Take into account how he normally looks at me. And that we’re not official. What does this mean? Is he crushing? Is he amused? Is he in love? What does this mean? TIA 🙏🏻

[GreatBigCircles]

Sounds like he enjoys seeing you and spending time with you. You should ask him out if you like him back, but don't create unnecessary expectations. If you're always worrying about things like 'is he in love, what is he thinking' you'll end up missing actual communication, and just opening yourself up to misunderstandings. Just... Enjoy knowing him and learning how he feels about you, and let the relationship just be 'the relationship' instead of worrying about if it goes into the 'dating' or 'interested' box.

[Asker]

Well see, here’s the thing. We have good communication. We talk all the time. See each other a couple days a week. We’re great friends and both know we like each other. And May be official down the road. But I’m just trying to figure out exactly how much and how serious he truly is. Like does he really really like me, like is he falling? Or is he like all the other guys and just say it then walk away?

[Anonymous]

His reaction would indicate to me he has interest in you.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a couple of very immature teenagers. 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

Lol thank you 😂 though we’re both in our 20s

[Iron_Man]

Make yourself available talk to him

[Asker]

I already do that. Can you tell me what you think that means from him? Is he falling? 🙃

[Iron_Man]

He really likes you

[Asker]

Okay thank you ☺️

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[mommymommymommy]

No such thing as "just friends"

[Asker]

Lol yeah I’ve found that out from literally ALL my guy friends 😅