They are true men. Or the woman has changed for the worst. Or people grow out of relationships. Selfish, cowards? Yet these are the type of men women go for.
I think most of the time it is just he had a chance to fuck someone, so he took it. It does not mean he actually love her or wanna relationship with her.
Out of curiosity, does this mean you do or don't believe that there are men alive today that deserve loyalty? (Like is it all people or only women for some reason?) I'm just curious about the mindset since it differs so deeply from mine.
I don't date men, so I can't speak to how they are. I have a big heart, and a lot of love and loyalty to give. I've given it all just for it to be thrown in my face time after time, like it meant nothing. So I won't give either until I finally start getting it back, and I have yet to meet another woman who can. That's my mindset
I suppose I can't throw you all under the bus, but so many of you are so selfish in so many ways. It's all about you and how you feel. "Me me me me me..."
I wasn't saying that you do date men, but like, if women are undeserving are men also undeserving (ignoring your opinion towards yourself, think like, all other men or something)?
And I understand where you're coming from, betrayal is painful, but I'm not sure you'll ever find someone to return your affection if you aren't willing to give it to start with. If you say things like "I'll never be loyal to a woman", why would a woman be willing to be loyal to you, as opposed to finding someone more emotionally available who will make that choice alongside her?
If you require proof that someone will be loyal to you before you're loyal to them then I doubt anyone will ever choose to. It presents an unhealthy double standard of behavior in which one person is expected to treat the relationship as exclusive and the other isn't. Personally, I would never choose to commit to a man who wouldn't give me the same from the very start.
But if you are willing to put forward your own loyalty and affection at the start of a relationship and are simply having trouble finding someone with the same intentions, you might want to consider what kind of people you're interacting with and how your own behaviors might be affecting their behavior. Are you acting in a way that might signal to hook-up culture? Are you finding people that share the same morals as you? I know very few women who've cheated on a spouse or significant other, so I can guarantee that there are plenty of people out there who share your interest in an exclusive, loving relationship.
Sorry, I write a lot. And I appreciate you taking back your generalization. To ironically generalize, generalization are rarely accurate. And as I mentioned, my experience with women hasn't aligned with yours in the slightest. I'm sorry to hear you've met so many difficult people in your life. I hope at some point you're able to see the world, or at least my gender 😂 in a more positive light. I believe that men and women tend to be equally flawed and selfish. You might simply not be exposing yourself to the "selfishness of men" because you aren't trying to date them haha (and I mean that both seriously and lightheartedly, there are a lot of things about people we don't see until we try to incorporate them into our lives)
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Most Instances of cheating are commited by women.
Same for most instances of divorce.
People in general cheat because they're stupid.
They are true men. Or the woman has changed for the worst. Or people grow out of relationships. Selfish, cowards? Yet these are the type of men women go for.
I think most of the time it is just he had a chance to fuck someone, so he took it. It does not mean he actually love her or wanna relationship with her.
He never truly loved his girlfriend to begin with. Instead of breaking up, he cheats like a coward.
for the same reason women cheat on their boyfriends
Psychopathy. Or close to it. It’s a behavior of doing something wrong. That’s why they won’t stop.
You want to change your boyfriend but refuse to change yourself.
So find someone who behaves the way where
Depending on personal traits and her upstart anger issues.
In my view its just bcz if physical pleasure…. We do get attracted to other women even if our girl is super hot
Because they're cheaters. It isn't rocket science. Don't want a guy to cheat don't date a cheater.
Sex life is terrible want feel wanted have wild animal like exciting sex
1) girlfriend is acting stupid and fighting him
2) he just wants to cheat and he can
3) temptation
she’s being shitty about putting out or the sex has gotten mundane
Why all girls like to generalize that?
For sex with a different person
I will never be loyal to anyone again. No woman still alive today deserves it
Out of curiosity, does this mean you do or don't believe that there are men alive today that deserve loyalty? (Like is it all people or only women for some reason?) I'm just curious about the mindset since it differs so deeply from mine.
I don't date men, so I can't speak to how they are.
I have a big heart, and a lot of love and loyalty to give. I've given it all just for it to be thrown in my face time after time, like it meant nothing.
So I won't give either until I finally start getting it back, and I have yet to meet another woman who can.
That's my mindset
I suppose I can't throw you all under the bus, but so many of you are so selfish in so many ways. It's all about you and how you feel. "Me me me me me..."
I wasn't saying that you do date men, but like, if women are undeserving are men also undeserving (ignoring your opinion towards yourself, think like, all other men or something)?
And I understand where you're coming from, betrayal is painful, but I'm not sure you'll ever find someone to return your affection if you aren't willing to give it to start with. If you say things like "I'll never be loyal to a woman", why would a woman be willing to be loyal to you, as opposed to finding someone more emotionally available who will make that choice alongside her?
If you require proof that someone will be loyal to you before you're loyal to them then I doubt anyone will ever choose to. It presents an unhealthy double standard of behavior in which one person is expected to treat the relationship as exclusive and the other isn't. Personally, I would never choose to commit to a man who wouldn't give me the same from the very start.
But if you are willing to put forward your own loyalty and affection at the start of a relationship and are simply having trouble finding someone with the same intentions, you might want to consider what kind of people you're interacting with and how your own behaviors might be affecting their behavior. Are you acting in a way that might signal to hook-up culture? Are you finding people that share the same morals as you? I know very few women who've cheated on a spouse or significant other, so I can guarantee that there are plenty of people out there who share your interest in an exclusive, loving relationship.
Sorry, I write a lot. And I appreciate you taking back your generalization. To ironically generalize, generalization are rarely accurate. And as I mentioned, my experience with women hasn't aligned with yours in the slightest. I'm sorry to hear you've met so many difficult people in your life. I hope at some point you're able to see the world, or at least my gender 😂 in a more positive light. I believe that men and women tend to be equally flawed and selfish. You might simply not be exposing yourself to the "selfishness of men" because you aren't trying to date them haha (and I mean that both seriously and lightheartedly, there are a lot of things about people we don't see until we try to incorporate them into our lives)
Loyalty doesn mean enough to those who cheat.
When they are immature or mentally ill
Why do girls cheat on guys?
Because they are stupid
Both genders cheat on people.