So my boyfriend likes a woman that does woman things like make dinner, clean, do laundry etc. So he told me the other day I don't do a lot of that I only clean his clothes and I don't cool bc 1. His grandmother that he lives with bitches about cooking not to me but him and I don't want to hear that 2. It's not my house and I don't feel comfortable cooking in someone's house bc it's there house. If it's my house I would be fine so he keeps pushing me to cook so I made a promise to cook him dinner yesterday and my plan was to go to his house while he's at work and make him dinner so when he gets home he has food and he's happy, I even made his bed, folded his clothes and even put the cookies he likes on his bed, once I made dinner he came home gave me a kiss and ate food he did give me some affection but not much bc he doesn't like affection only when he wants it, so he asked me he had to go to the store and I asked for what and he bursted at me with anger and said I don't know we are going to the store. We went to dollar store which we always go to and I get upset always bc every dg we go to he knows every single woman in there. So we grab our stuff and go home and we go up in his room and he sees the cookies and he just takes them and eats them and tells me u did this bc we were fighting yesterday and I said no it's bc I promise after that we had sex and that was it I got no thank you no appreciation nothing and I don't know if the sex was appreciation or if it's for his needs, when I asked him I get no I'm sorry for being a dick or anything he said I gave u sex. Like ummm no so please help me out is he just using me we've been in a realationship for a year now and he was my bestfriend once we started dating he's not the same guy like he was.
Does my boyfriend just not appreciate me anymore? Is he just not interested in me anymore?
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before dumping this jerk, sorry he sounds like a jerk, ask if he wants to cook TOGETHER in their kitchen, as your issue. maybe that will bring you together or he will say no, then dump him.
He cooks all the time and i just stand next to him watching just to see what his technique is bc like I said I'm uncomfortable being in someone's house bc I think of it as if someone visits my house I wouldn't want someone just coming in and cooking ya know it's a respect thing, but he tells me all the time instead of him always cooking I should cook.