IN SHORT: donation guy pulled me aside and asked for donations. i gav him $10. He said $20 would go a long way too. I was like no thanks i already paid $30 for chicken feed. We had a long talk about chickens and school. In the midst he said I had pretty eyes and we went out separate ways. Had to put back the cart and we said our goodbyes again. Kinda bummed he didn't ask for my number. Should I c him tomorrow at the donation stand again? Or is this a marketing thing. Complimenting someone for more money? Is this genuine.
LONG:I pretty much ignore donation stands bc of the social anxiety, however, this guy pulled me to the side (and i can't just walk away and come off rude 😥 introvert problems) he was discussing about his donations and I said I’d offer cash as a donation 🫡 i didn't wanna be cheap so i gav him a $10 he said smthn along the of lines of thanks and of course $20 would go a long with with helping children 😅. I was like No thanks i already paid $30 for 2 bags of chicken feed and he started asking if i had chickens and we had a long talk about it then when convo was slowly dying, he said I had nice eyes. I said thanks and we went our separate ways 👋🏼 I had to put back the cart tho so i had to walk past him and was hoping he would ask for my number but he didn't and we said our goodbyes again lol he didn't look at me when I was in my car he was on his phone🫡✊🏼
LONG:I pretty much ignore donation stands bc of the social anxiety, however, this guy pulled me to the side (and i can't just walk away and come off rude 😥 introvert problems) he was discussing about his donations and I said I’d offer cash as a donation 🫡 i didn't wanna be cheap so i gav him a $10 he said smthn along the of lines of thanks and of course $20 would go a long with with helping children 😅. I was like No thanks i already paid $30 for 2 bags of chicken feed and he started asking if i had chickens and we had a long talk about it then when convo was slowly dying, he said I had nice eyes. I said thanks and we went our separate ways 👋🏼 I had to put back the cart tho so i had to walk past him and was hoping he would ask for my number but he didn't and we said our goodbyes again lol he didn't look at me when I was in my car he was on his phone🫡✊🏼
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Not sure, but if he didn't ask then he was probably just being friendly. Being charismatic is kind of in the job description for people in sales/whatever you call this is as job. He might have been less trying to get you to give more money than trying to leave you with a good impression of his cause and his presence. It can be easy for those sorts of things to get kicked out of store fronts if anyone complains, even if they're not doing anything especially wrong (because you're right, it does create, and really depend on, social anxiety and unwanted pressure.) I'd just forget about it and move on.
There definitely is not enough information. I wouldn't assume he likes you but if he does he'll very likely at least give you more hints. If he doesn't he almost certainly doesn't like you in my honest assessment. Donating to his cause certainly helps. I believe most guys would like someone more for helping him and also it makes it seem like you like him more too so he should feel less likely to be rejected now.
I don't agree with people who say that a guy should know right away if he wants to pursue someone or not but if you see him often he should show that he should show more signs of interest within the next month if he's into you. If not you should forget about it or try to get his attention another way if you really want him but I feel like you don't care that much about him.
Aren't you taken?
Yeah but definitely leaving soon 🫡🙂
I see, fair enough
I do recommend seeking after you break up, you don't want to qualify as a cheater right before ending It, that would be very dumb no lie
I've already mentally left. The stuff i put up with was charity work. We already both know that we ended.
Y'all should officially end it tho, I don't know what y'all are waiting for honestly