If several men keep complaining about equality then why don't they care about our money?

[Anonymous]

For instance if a woman post her online profile that includes her physical features, her education level, her achievements, her 2 cars, her house and the her yearly income close to $100,000 while still in her 20's (inheritance including too), many men don't seem to care. One even says ''No offense but this isn't a job interview, this is a dating site. Frankly I don't care about your money.''

Yet if a man were to use our money or we pay for him, he's insulted by other men and women and called a lazy bum, a user, a lowlife, a no good for nothing, etc.

That's the irony. Several men complain about equality but they themselves have a bad opinion of a man living off our money or if we post about our monetary achievements, they don't care and even get annoyed. Why?

[Miristheiss]

Romantic attraction?

Men and women are different.

A man will tend to care about a girl's beauty, figure, femininity, her sexual past, shared values, her being pleasant, easy going and chill when wanting a relationship/marriage.

Her career, education, income have nothing to do with attraction for a man.

A woman will tend to care a lot about a man's job, his income, his status, how tall he is, how charming, ambitious, confident, take charge... he is.

Men and women don't seek the same things when it comes to attraction.

Most men won't care about your money... etc. Sometimes it will actually be a negative to romance... not a plus.

[richardcory]

Is it normal for men or women to talk about wealth on dating sites? I've been married so long that I've never used one. I can see giving hints by describing the sorts of things you like to do ( "I like to travel, especially skiing trips to the Alps").

But actually listing income seems strange to me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I care about her looks, personality, comprehension skills, talents, sense of humor, interests, hobbies, goals, and lifestyle, all but the first of which should match mine.

I don't care about all that other stuff you mentioned. Nor do I think about how others view any sort of relationship dynamic I'm in.

I'm also not interested in a relationship where either me or her acts as the sole provider. I would much prefer a 50/50 split on expenses for any shared bills.

[Anonymous]

Only dumb men keep women, I wouldn't marry a poor woman or one with no good college degree. The downside is that women with good college majors are getting old, so I'd just take their money and divorce them later.

[Asker]

yet when a man does care and does take her money, he gets criticized by both genders and called names.

[Opinion Owner]

If he is a poor man who marries a rich thirty-something old woman just for her money, then he is a fortune hunter. Since I have a good university degree, I don't need to prostitute myself with ugly thirty-something women. In any case, I would have no relationship with a poor or poor woman without good college career, they just get in the way.

[BarryLiverstone]

They care about money

[Asker]

If they do, why is a man going after our money criticized so much by both genders?

[Asker]

The terms they called a man like that are lazy bum, moocher, user, etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because if someone uses someone else for their money they deserve to be called lazy

[BarryLiverstone]

How would you criticize someone who uses someone else to get their money?

[DreamLife7]

You're worried about the wrong thing