He never complimented me to start with he said out of jealously of other people wanting me (completely believe this he went mental that someone messaged me when I had never spoken to them before)
He also was into bigger girls and I’m not that and he said irs all he could get and he preferred what I had
He’d always be super into the sex and once we got established and he stopped being so jealous he’d compliment me saying my body was amazing etc and said he forgot how good looking I was if he didn’t see me for a few days
He would say I was a 9 and super hot and he couldn’t stop himself with me. But in arguments would say there’s better than me.
But then he left me for someone else so how do I know if he was lying or not?
I seen messages from him his friend saying (me) looked too good tonight and talking about my bum
He also told his friends he forgets how good looking I am and he hates it when he’s mad at me.
He also was into bigger girls and I’m not that and he said irs all he could get and he preferred what I had
He’d always be super into the sex and once we got established and he stopped being so jealous he’d compliment me saying my body was amazing etc and said he forgot how good looking I was if he didn’t see me for a few days
He would say I was a 9 and super hot and he couldn’t stop himself with me. But in arguments would say there’s better than me.
But then he left me for someone else so how do I know if he was lying or not?
I seen messages from him his friend saying (me) looked too good tonight and talking about my bum
He also told his friends he forgets how good looking I am and he hates it when he’s mad at me.
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I think it's best to move on and not think about if he lied or not.
But based on what you're saying, it does sound like he is just trying to say things that will suit him better in the argument. If he really meant it he wouldn't leave you for someone else. Don't believe the bad things he said in the argument.
Be proud of yourself, know your worth, and find someone who doesn't play this kind of mind games.
So he didn’t find me that attractive or the sex that good?
just believe compliments, because if you doubt like that, you will never know anything he says.
Well did he mean them?
It honestly shouldn't matter. The jerk left you for someone else. Looks never always keeps someone... I'm sorry this jerk did this to you