What should I do because this is my first time being in a situation like this?

[Anonymous]

Should I check on him? He's depressed and it's been 5 days. I sent him a text a couple days ago and no response and I just texted him saying im here let me know if you need anything etc. I'm too afraid to call so I just sent him another text. I am respecting his space though that he need time alone. Am I'm doing right by checking in by texting a depressed guy even though he wants space? I really care about him by the way.

P. s. I'm too afraid to call also cause imma be pissed of I call and I find out I'm blocked. But I don't know why I would be blocked🥴🥴

[BasedBaeBecca]

It sounds like you've done everything you possibly can for him. You've sent him messages, let him know that you're there for him, and given him the space he has requested.

At this point, I'd recommend letting things go and focusing on your own well-being. It's important to keep in mind that you cannot force someone to respond to you, and if they're not in the right headspace, then there's nothing else that you can do.

I think it's best that you give them time to reach out to you on their own terms and priorities.

[Asker]

Thank you for your response! And yes this is what I'm doing focusing on myself. It's hard but im doing it. I guess I'm afraid of losing him. He said he loved me, his parents would love me etc etc etc. My friends don't believe he's depressed but I believe him (usually I can figure out when guys are bs but I think he's legit depressed) I really liked him and for this to happen is just odd. I hope he's okay. And I'll give him time to reach out on his own. For now im just going to focus on myself.

[Anonymous]

Ask the police to do a welfare check on him.