Does it seems like the majority of men on this site hate women?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think this of every guy on here and it might not be as high as it seems. The negative ones probably just stand out significantly more. It is to the point I want to stop using this website because reading such negativity towards my gender (or to either really) is really unhealthy

[_Maya_]

There are certainty a fair share of them here that I have run into. I'm not going to name names but just read through the opinions and replies to what I asked not an hour ago and you'll spot one.

Guys, do you pick up feminine hygiene products for your girl?

I just say my piece and shrug it off. They have nothing better to do than be hateful. The problem is they blame us for their own deficiencies and can't take responsibility for their own actions. They think we are out to get them and have zero faults. It is really sad to be honest. I feel bad there are that many negative guys out there.

[Nikki1989]

He is just one of the trolls I highlighted in my comment.

[_Maya_]

Thanks Nikki and good to see you.

[Anonymous]

If some guy says “women should all be consigned to kitchens, they have lower IQs and they only exist to sexually please men and make babies” then that of course is sexist and of course misogyny. I don’t believe that for a second nor will ever support any other guy who says the same.

But on the flip side if a guy talks about his experiences/observations of women who shit test men then he sharing his story. And I also fully believe women biologically exhibit that behavior much more then men due to evolutionary factors. I also believe women tend to be much more picky and selfish then men because again it’s due to evolutionary factors. There was a time in history it was necessary for their very survival. But it isn’t any more in modern society.

But some women on here including extremely bias moderators (yeah I know who you are) rather remove and censor any posts that mention my theory above. Forget about downvoting my opinion (please bring downvoting back GAG). Forget about debating me. Nah just claim that I’m an “incel” who “hates women” if you see rational opinion that makes you uncomfortable. One certain mod definitely wants to turn GAG into her own personal safe space.

Funny thing is I have on occasion defended and assisted women who were dealing with true male toxic behavior (I encouraged a woman to leave her abusive boyfriend after I got the full details on her story). I also recently encouraged another girl to ignore a guy who ghosted/blocked her but later changed his mind. Encouraged her to respect herself. I care about what is right vs being right.

But some people truly believe “their truth” is “the truth”.

[Cuminginside]

Let me guess one of them thinks that they are pretty but really they are ugly Yeah they need to send her back where she comes from.

[Opinion Owner]

@Cuminginside I am actually surprised my post is still up. There a recent cadre of censorship Marxists on GAG that have gotten very aggressive in the last few weeks. It’s a group of 2 or 3 radical feminists who message each other to “report” what guys like me post above as “offensive”.

They message either other and take turns flagging posts they don’t like just because it makes them “uncomfortable”. Doesn’t matter if my opinion didn’t violate any GAG guidelines. They believe GAG is their personal “safe space”. This has only pissed me off and motivated me to post content they don’t like (yet doesn’t break any rules) more regularly.

[lilithscandle]

Accounting for your experiences and speculating/insulting women are two different things that seems to go hand in hand for the many misogynists on this site.

From what I’m seeing your theory has no basis, and in this day and age still makes no sense. Women didn’t need to be selfish for evolutionary reasons, putting yourself first is not selfish. And recent studies show women are more selfless than males, “the female brain award kindness while the male brain awards selfishness” is one of the many. Nonetheless, I’d like you to elaborate on your theory; is it anecdotal or can it be tested and proved through experiment? If you conducted said experiment multiple times with different groups of women, would you have the same trend or would your results vary? Have you conducted an experiment or is it just a theory based on speculation?

[Opinion Owner]

@lilithscandle well sense you are putting me on the spot about studies and empirical data then why don’t you start us off by providing published studies (from non-partisan sources)?

[Opinion Owner]

And yes I admit my opinion was based on my personal experiences. But it’s based on how I am expected to treat women well out of principle (whether they benefit me or not). But I myself became expendable once a woman no longer found value in my association. It’s also based out my self worth only being measured for what I can provide women. Based a man’s agency.

Women however from my observations can demand to be treated special JUST for existing. Regardless if they benefit the man or not.

But again above in based on my life observations and experiences. So I admit it’s anecdotal. But you provide the studies first about women being “more selfless”. I do believe they are “selfless” if and only if the man is of value to them (love interest, relative, etc).

[lilithscandle]

I keep trying to post the links but it says I can’t since I’m not level 3 yet. I’m breaking it up into parts, backspace as needed please.

https : //econweb. ucsd. edu/~jandreon/
Publications/qje2001. pdf

https: //ideas. repec. org/a/ecj/econjl/
V10819981448p726-35. html

[lilithscandle]

In what way do you expect a women to benefit you if you are not yet with the woman? This is how it would go when a man would court a woman, your value is what you can provide. The way I was raised, I’d expect the same from someone who’s a gentleman. For me its security. When a man’s money is involved in pursuing a girl he can actually be taken serious.

If a woman has sex early on in a connection and things don’t work out, the male may leave the relationship feeling used for his money and the woman may leave the relationship feeling used for her body. Those are the things we value. Money can be made back, but if I slept with every dude who paid on dates or bought me stuff I’d be considered a whore.

If during the talking stage things don’t work for us we go our separate ways. If we get in a relationship, we do relationship things. Does that mean sex right away, just because we’re now boyfriend and girlfriend? No, sexual discipline is important. That also comes with time and showing you can be relied on.

Engaged or husband and wife? You provide the house, I make it a home. You provide the groceries, I make a meal. You provide Yk.. and I birth a child. I was taught that this was the balance (far more to it but those are the basics). It’s what my mom experienced with my dad, and it’s what my sister already experienced with her fiancé.

And I’m not paying on a date when me getting ready for said date is already so expensive. Maintenance as a woman on top of the bills we have to pay is beyond expensive. Just to get my hair done is $170 USD, mani pedi is $140 total, full body wax is close to $400. & my perfumes are too expensive to waste on a date I have to pay for. Not to mention all of the body care products used, too expensive to waste.

So.. what is it you’d expect? Because you’re allowed to not want what these kind of women want yk. Just.. find someone different. Especially if they’re just using you, and not planning to provide their portion.

[Anonymous]

No, definitely not the majority. There are a few misogynists who are loud, and as a woman you probably focus in them more.

As a man I am more conscious of the misandrists, and there are plenty of those, too. One of the most prolific of them posted one of her usual misandrist rants this morning, and I see it has now been deleted (like so many others of hers). Otherwise i would link it here. I can't post her username or my comment would be deleted. She actually has at least three accounts she posts under regularly, and thuser names are all very similar, so she doesn't even try to hide it.

Here's another prolific misandrist. This particular post is very mild be her standards, but historically she has posted a ton of awful stuff, much of which has also been deleted because it was so blantly sexist and hateful toward men. Men Cause Most Problems In The World. Why Do Guys Get Offended When Women Or Men Say This?

If you think there are more misogynists than misandrists here, I would just suggest you pay closer attention and try to see things from both sides of the gender aisle.

[ericclayton]

I agree. Both are present.

[Nikki1989]

Many men are very bitter, frustrated, delusional, and like to blame women for all their problems instead of questioning their own actions. However, I wouldn't call them a majority, it more like a few select trolls that have nothing better to do than to stir the pot.

[Lliam]

I see quite a few guys here who have a very low opinion of women. I don't think they are a majority, but they are vocal. They give men a bad name.

The ones I see think that women are inferior to men. They feel threatened by smart, self-sufficient women. They feel oppressed by "feminism". They think any woman who has sex before marriage is a slut. They think women are shallow gold diggers who are prone to cheating and divorce. I think these attitudes are reflective of those guys' own shallowness as well as low self esteem.

I'm not sure, but I don't think they are reflective of the male demographic in the west.

[OfMiceandMen]

I maybe naïve but the I thought the whole premise of the site is to ask girls about things and clear your mind of those negativities. Kind of heal your heart/soul through discussion with women and learn not all of them are evil.

But, I see a lot of guys just dropping ignorant comments which actually deters women on here from opening up and screws the rest of us who truly want to learn.

If all you are here to do is piss women off, because one sh*t in your con flakes, you are missing out on a wealth of knowledge from a variety of women at all different ages. Stop pissing them off and maybe listen and contribute once in while!

Sorry for the rant - my bad!

[ohsheeT]

It really does I mean and it pisses me off a lot of times because
The guy will just snap when answering a question and I don't understand that except for

To me it just shows who they truly are that they either hate their mother or they're not big enough to get over that some girl turn them down

But I think it's totally disgusting and I think it's wrong and I honestly think that they should be called out for it because personally I'm tired of reading their crap just because they hate themselves they got to hate other people and that's just totally wrong

[Finchie40]

It seems to be that way from both sexes on here. Best advice is to just stay away from it and don’t waste your time and energy on it , I like this app mainly for the questions and giving advice and opinions based off of my experiences, whether someone agrees with me or not, is not my problem , but if I can help someone with advice I experienced then awesome , I am glad I could help them. Most of the questions I post is mainly questions based off of my own personal experiences , so there will always be someone that doesn’t agree with what you say and that’s all fine and dandy , just remember it’s not your problem

[CuriousTommy]

As a man that JUST made my account lmaoo, I saw men being honest and say general opinions between men that they don't usually say. Like being fat is bad or sleeping with a lot of people is bad, etc. But these aren't hate. We just lack good female role models nowadays. All we have are female celebs that strip naked and show how beautiful they are. Which isn't something women should strive after!!! Beauty isn't it. Personality, loyalty, kindness, modesty... These aren't spoken enough about.

[ohmyguy]

No. we just hate what woman have become... actually what we all become..

Fake.. and shallow bitter.. competitive rivals one uping one another in stead of creatively complementing each other sexes are so estranged of each other..
It's so shifty to be seen as a creep by woman if you even attempt to. approach them.. or your friends decide who right or not right for u.. our minds made up in advance... all eager to offend and offended for arguments over causes we promote but don't support.. we need to get over our selves... n get real

[Daniela1982]

They may hate certain women" but not all of them. If anyone hates women on here then they probably hate a lot of things. You just can't judge everyone by their sex. There are both good and bad in both sexes on here. Just as a guess, but I would say the women hated on here are probably the Ho's.

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Because guys come to this site in hopes of, finding out girls are into them. Once they've found out that's not the case, they anonymously talk shit. Same reason bullies bully, they aren't happy with their life so they project it on others.

Don't take those people seriously.

[BarryLiverstone]

Others have left gag for similar reasons. The guys who hate on here are just louder than those who are respectful

[LazerBean]

Men who hate women are a minority, they're just a very loud minority.

[ta-ra]

Some do, some don't. But the ones that do.. wow I actually feel sorry for them. Must take a lot to be so petty and basic.

And yes some woman on here stoop to that level of hypocrisy too but I see it far more often with the men on here.

I see some genuine questions from some girls since the app is "girls asks guys" and the answers they give are just so ignorant, like why answer at all if you are just here to put people down? It's just sad.

[Mamaliv]

It goes both ways, I’ve seen men and women quickly point fingers at the opposite sex on here. Guess what people, just because a handful of people treated you one way or behaved a certain way doesn’t mean every woman or every man is that way. That’s the beauty in life don’t ya think? We all have been given our own mind and our own choices! Not one being is identical.

[normalice]

That's the internet in general. The anonymity the internet grants - in both directions - makes it easy to be a total shartmouth to people. Combine with the same hundred thousand year struggle of adolescent men trying to get their dick wet, but suddenly make it easy to blame someone else for failure, and it was kind of inevitable.

[Apple1996]

Most of the men here hate on women. They have a lot of issues and would rather take it out on women instead of going to therapy to better themselves

[Billlewis]

Very well said, Goddess.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. Do you have anyone in mind 😁.

[Apple1996]

@KrakenAttackin haha i wouldn't call out anyone like that

[KrakenAttackin]

Awww.

[Apple1996]

@KrakenAttackin if you were hoping for me to call you out on that then its definitely a no. You are slightly more level headed then the other male users here

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. I'll take that 😉

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin 😂😂 she’s probably thinking of me

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill maybe a little but still other worse men on here. I haven't seen y'all make any rape or murder threats yet...

[ericclayton]

No, it's a minority but they're very vocal. There's a certain number of women like that here as well, but smaller in number and not nearly as aggressive. But it's important to understand that this site isn't a good representation of the general public.

[Sparkie460]

Yes there are a lot of guys on here that despise women. I think they have had bad experiences with women so they think women are all the same. All women are not the same. Yes, there are bad women out there just like there are bad men. They need to realize that there are a lot of great women on here and they don't deserve the disrespect that they receive.

[Nik1hil]

Give me 5 reasons that men on this site should love women..

Pick any guys question and see, lesss than 10 women responds to him properly..

Men get taken for granted.. Then they get fed up and become sore...

I watch it happen laugh my ass off.. Because i don't answer more than 5 question.. Most of them not seriously..

[JosyJosy]

I'm not going to say that it's the majority. Since I've been back I've ticked off two girls and one guy. I'm currently in a disagreement with a guy, and we are both just respectfully stating our arguments.
Got to have a little bit of a thick skin if you're staying here. You don't have to interact with haters. If their goal is to hate, then interacting is only a waste of your time anyway.

[Billlewis]

The majority of guys on this site aren't getting any pussy, which naturally results in their being angry and frustrated at women in general.

[Apple1996]

This is so true so many of the men here are sex deprived

[Billlewis]

@Apple1996 Es, ma'am, but what I don't understand is why it has to be a bad thing to be sexually frustrated. Not getting any pussy can be a wonderfully positive thing for a guy, if his ego is strong enough to handle it.

[Apple1996]

I agree but often times their egos cannot handle it

[Anonymous]

Here’s my understanding, some of the men go for women they should not have picked in the first place, then they reproduce with them, giving birth to more women of the same type that they got ruined by and then they complain all women are horrible.

“No, idiot, you have a horrible taste in woman.” That’s what I think.

Makes you think that they deserve all this, that’s what they chose after all.