Well it is a enemies to best friends thing.. it happened back in 2019 when I was in 9th grade... we made a lot of memories, we were together the whole time and I felt it as the best friendship I ever had with a guy. Covid came, our contact lessened we didn't talk that often but we both knew we were still bestf. Then in 2021 and 2022, we talked for few minutes like once in 2-3 months because of studies. This year he got back on social media and texted, we started talking but something's missing it feels like we still consider each other bestf but he doesn't seem the same, he feels distant. I talked to him today and said that I want him to talk to me and that I missed him his replies weren't satisfactory. What do I do? He means so much to me even now and I don't know if he has changed.. how do I talk to him about this or should I just end it so it doesn't hurt me more than it already is?
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Do I wait for a few days and accept that people change so has he and I shouldn't expect anything like before and just be friends like we are now?
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Things like this are so hard!
Has he got a girlfriend or new crush that takes Thier attention!
Has he just got other things to do besides talk now?
Sounds really more like you are crushing on him or want him as a boyfriend then you just want a friend back... it happened especially when your think that you will lose him!
What gets his attention normally? Does he openly talk sex or just friendly talk?
Well he got into new college few months back so yeah he has new friends out of which none are females as he told me and he isn't that busy as he used to be.
We don't really talk about sex and stuff it's just friendly talk but it feels even that has lessened.. it's just I ask he replies he asks I reply that's it
Do I text him that I want to end it if it isn't like before or do I wait?
Sure you can end it but right now he is with guys and they suck at texting so probably rubbing off on him!
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